my dad is always saying i'm beautiful but he's my dad thats his job! i know i'm not and all the boys at school always go for the skinny blonde chavs i really want a bf but i don't seem 2 attract ANYONE HELP
P.S i'm not a desperate teenager!!!
2006-11-17 07:13:11 · 20 answers · asked by burn baybee burn 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
if all the boys at ur school go for the skinny chavy girls then dont worry about them coz ur probably a great person and hey they aint worth ur time,u need to wait till u find some1 who likes u for who u r as a person once u find that some1 then u wont have to worry about them going for the skinny chavy girls coz they will love u not wat u r but who u r and thats the most important thing inner beauty is wat its all about!goodluck bye,SMILE.......
2006-11-17 07:20:58 · answer #1 · answered by smokey 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How would we know we don't know what you look like silly!!! I'm sure you're not at all, who cares if the boys go for skinny chavs, I tell you something now - at school there is always the popular ones but TRUST me after school finishes and you go to college or whatever these popular ones suddenly aren't popular any more because when you leave school you make good friends not friends with people due to what they look like and then you look at the popular girls and they are actually ugly and the only reason they're popular is either because they're bullies, rich or sl*ts so don't worry school is not the be all and all believe me. Your Dad is probably right - what a nice Dad you have. x
2006-11-17 07:18:40 · answer #2 · answered by Katie G 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As much as this may sound really harsh, If your over weight then do something about it go on a diet and do some exercise. I want to loose a good half a stone for my xmas party and i done it by eating a breakfast of cereal with no sugar and walking to work it takes me an hour and im fucked after but its well worth it I eat a healthy lunc nothing fried or fatty os salty then I dont eat after 6 as you dont do anything to burn off what you eat and do you know what 3 weeks into it I feel much better can feel myself getting tighter and people have mentioned i lost a bit of weight its all about will power be stong and beauty is the eye of the beholder
2006-11-17 07:56:30 · answer #3 · answered by Pet 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You wouldnt want the kinda guy who goes for skinny blonde chav's would you? Course not babes. Dont look for anyone, he'll find you!!!!! Make the most of your dad telling you your beautiful wish my dad could but I lost him years ago, so your a lucky girl havin such a nice dad!!
Stick with having males as mates for now and you'll meet someone when your not looking! Good luck!
2006-11-17 07:48:23 · answer #4 · answered by enigma64 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You sound very nice and normal....we all have insecurities. You can learn how to make the most of your good assets...you do have them. Gain confidence.....don't do any of it to get a boyfriend do it all for you and to feel good about yourself. Read magazines....you don't mention mum.....but may be there is an older woman you can talk to mum an aunt, a friend or a friends mum......
You would only be mingin if you took no care of yourself and had B O etc........so you are not.......just believe in yourself. The rest will follow
2006-11-17 07:20:44 · answer #5 · answered by eagledreams 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There was a saying that "There is a hat for every head" meaning everybody will find someone eventually - be patient.
I never had much luck with the ladies at school, but am now happily in a relationship with a baby on the way!
At the end of the day, its whats on the insdie that counts and when the right person comes along - you'll know!
2006-11-17 07:18:11 · answer #6 · answered by Richard E 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
how do you feel about yourself. Having a boyfriend isn't the be all and end all of life, they can be a real pain in the bum ! Be patient you'll have plenty of boyfriends, they only go for the blonde chavs coz they put out for the guys (usually) have respect for yourself and others respect will follow.
2006-11-17 07:16:16 · answer #7 · answered by Jovi Freak 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If all the boys in your school are chasing after blonde chavs and not you, then take comfort from the fact you aren't a blonde chav!!
2006-11-17 07:20:14 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
When I was in high school I was an ugly duckling. All the boys went for the skinny stupid blonde girls. When I reached about 19 those idiots were all over me and I said "see ya!"
Trust me, when you are older, you will have men wrapped around your finger:)
2006-11-17 07:19:06 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Beauty is in the eye of the beholder.
Several of my previous gf's were not typically attractive. Two considered themselves fairly ugly. My last did, though I considered her one of the most beautiful women I'd known. Just because you don't match everyone's idea of beauty isn't important unless you plan on dating everyone.
Just be yourself. Few of us believe we are attractive. Many of the prettiest actresses don't consider themselves attractive either.
2006-11-17 07:35:00 · answer #10 · answered by Radagast97 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋