Sorry I am really rubbish at these things. I think he is but need some additional input. It's a guy at work and I think he is cute but before I make it clear the feeling is mutual I want to make sure I am not barking up the wrong tree and thus save myself some embarrassment.
It started with really basic things like lots of smiling and him making the effort to say "Hi" and "Bye" every day... Then he twisted my arm into coming to our xmas party.
Then I did a work related favour for him and he made a big deal out of it... saying "I really owe you one... what's your favourite tipple... I'll buy you a drink" , etc.
Now he is going on about making sure there is Jack Daniels (the favourite tipple in question) at the office xmas do and how he is really looking forward to it.
He has taken to calling me "Babe" or "Darling" and moved to a desk closer to mine.
Recently he has started with touching me while talking. Today he walked past me and held my arm as he walked past.
2006-11-17 07:12:03 · 15 answers · asked by â?¥MissMayâ?¥ 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He also got my number of a friend while I was off work sick and called to make sure I was ok.
I know this is all really small stuff and there is loads more but within an office environment do you think this is flirting or just being friendly?
2006-11-17 07:13:12 · update #1
I have also just ended a three year 'fling' with someone (2 days ago)... Do you think it is too soon anyway to be entertaining the thought of someone new?
2006-11-17 07:14:45 · update #2
He also came up to me while I was at my computer and asked if I was busy typing a love letter to him.
Sorry this is so long and for all the info but I figure the more you have the better judgement you can make.
Thanks for your patience.
2006-11-17 07:17:24 · update #3
kidframz
I am not dating anyone so I don't know where you got that from.
2006-11-17 07:19:43 · update #4
Oh and I do like it. It's refreshing after the last 3 years of no 'chemistry'... It's very enjoyable to have a bit of banter with someone who makes you feel special. And nothing he does makes me feel uncomfortable.
2006-11-17 07:23:02 · update #5
The three year fling should really never have been more than a one night stand... if anything at all. It has been over a long time and hasn't been worth anything for quite a while. I tried but my efforts weren't worth it realy. Anyway just to clairify that I was never unfaithful or anything... not even in thought as there was nothing to be unfaithful to. It was never serious and there were never any feelings involved on either side and nobody got hurt. I doubt he even remembers my name lol
2006-11-17 08:01:12 · update #6
Evidently you have been nurturing this on for some time... even prior to breaking up with your three year fling... It sounds like you want it to happen... Is he aware that you are free to date now... unattached...? If he is, I would do nothing and see if he asks you out in a week or so... if he doesn't, he's just a good office friend with no romantic interest... Some people don't like dating fellow office workers... It's a definite no no... especially when disagreements arise in your private life... I would change my focus and look elsewhere... You are pretty enough to attract a variety of eligible men... so don't worry about that... Just work on that sparkling personality...
2006-11-17 07:25:55 · answer #1 · answered by deakjone 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My biggest advice to you is to watch an awesome movie "When Harry met Sally." I feel that you have a strong friendship, which is complicated by a work situation. If you were to start a relationship and it were to not work out so well you would be left with nothing. It is really hard to recover from a failed relationship and when you have seen your friends naked, it is hard to see them dressed without imagining them naked. Guys have a really hard times having relationship with girls in general without thinking about sex. If your friend is single and unattached, he is probably looking at you that way. You should drop some hints that you are interested or that you need a date for an event "I have two tickets for a concerts and no one to go with....) and see what he says!
He might be interested in you big time! I wish you good luck and hope that Cupid has casted an arrow in his heart as well!
Jean-Pierre
2006-11-17 07:22:41 · answer #2 · answered by JPR D 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl!!!!!!!!!! Sounds like to me...It's pass flirting! I think that he wants you.
But just to make sure...ask him. I just asked this man if he was flirting with me. I have not gotten a call back yet. I'm thinking??? Maybe he might not know how to express his self to me, since I was so abrupt. Maybe he was shocked to get that message that I left on the phone. But then maybe he is just not interested. I know he didn't call back.
What ever it is I'm going to see him soon and find out. Then we both can move on. Either together or apart. It's that simple.
2006-11-17 07:24:10 · answer #3 · answered by Child of God 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You get to drink Jack Daniels at your office Christmas Party?
niiice
2006-11-17 07:16:56 · answer #4 · answered by *nevermind* 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he is married, he might be flirting because his wife gives him no attention.
If he is single, he is probably hitting on you. OR he might feel sorry for you. OR he might be a homo and just wants a friend that is a girl......
You will only know the answer to your question...
2006-11-17 07:16:48 · answer #5 · answered by aubreytaegan 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, if the question was does he like ya, the answer is so yeah. He calls you those things, geez, thats awesome! Have a happy time with him. Cute couple. Lol.
2006-11-17 07:16:24 · answer #6 · answered by Lily 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some peopl are just like that and say things
but who knows
2006-11-17 07:13:48 · answer #7 · answered by simplyme 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds pretty flirty to me. Say something to him, the worst thing that could happen is that he doesn't feel that way about you, and in that case, you can go back to being friends with him.
2006-11-17 07:16:04 · answer #8 · answered by Ariella 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you dont want to be with the guy then cut it now befor things get out of hand. just tell him you want tobe friends for now and not to tuch you . letting him get this far with you when you dont want that is not good
2006-11-17 07:16:00 · answer #9 · answered by me and you 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, he is obviously flirting! The question is, how do you feel about it? If you like it, great. If you don't, you'd better speak up!
2006-11-17 07:15:19 · answer #10 · answered by Zebra4 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋