Always look back to the reasons you two broke up. If the reasons are still valid, then you shouldn't consider going back.
I broke up with my gf/bf in January. I was still in love with both of them, but the reasons for going grossly outweighed staying.
Because I run into them at our dojo, all the time, I tried to stay friends. As thing would have it, I started believing I could get back with them. In getting closer to them, my ex-gf ended up hurting me pretty seriously. In looking back, the reasons I left were still very much true, I should never have convinced myself it was safe to get back into a relationship with them.
I may always love them, but that doesn't mean I should move on. You may need to, as well.
2006-11-17 07:25:07
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answer #1
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answered by Radagast97 6
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Sometimes people realize what they mean to each other when they break up and when they start dating other people again. If you still have strong feelings for him and would like to get back together, why not? Nothing stops you to talk to him and express your feelings. There is nothing you can lose this time. You'll be sure about his feelings for you..
PS. Maybe he thinks about you in the same way.
2006-11-17 15:19:49
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answered by Psychologist 3
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You're just comparing the new to the old, that's all.. Give the new person a chance and remember, there's a reason why you and the EX are "EXes"!!!!!
2006-11-17 15:13:31
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answered by Munya Says: DUH! 7
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I think you should move on because boys come and go
2006-11-17 15:14:25
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answered by lil boosie 4
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move on, things are always to messed up after you both start seeing other people.
2006-11-17 15:13:36
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answered by Ellyn 5
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Maybe you really care about him still and your feelings and thoughts are proof you could possibly talk to him about or just give yourself sometime.
2006-11-17 15:15:17
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answered by purple_dogs_bed 2
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I THINK YOU SHOULD MOVE ON I DON'T LIKE THE FACT OF BREAKING UP WITH SOMEONE AND GETTING BACK TOGETHER.I AM SURE YOU CAN FIND SOMEONE BETTER THEN HIM.
2006-11-17 15:14:26
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answered by ♥Natasha♥ 4
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move on going back stops your growth.
2006-11-17 15:15:02
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answered by punkin 5
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depends on if you still love him, if not your wasting your time..if you dont wanna b w/ him, dont talk about him and tell ure friend you dont wanna talk about him!
2006-11-17 15:13:58
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answered by hasanyoneseenmyshoes 2
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