im getting married tomorrow at 2pm and the past few nights i havent been sleeping well, i go to bed late around 3pm and wake around 7pm this morning i woke up at 6:30pm and feel like i want to be sick, im so excited i keep getting a rush through my body, cant eat, just want this day to be over so i can get back to normal. is this how i will feel for a wile even after we are married?
2006-11-17 07:09:27 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
good luck tomorow
2006-11-17 07:11:20 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 1⤋
I didn't really feel sick until the day off and I'm sure part of that was from the drinking the night before. But when I feel anxious, I definitely feel sick and can't eat. I didn't feel well until about 1-2pm (after I had my hair done and was starting to get dressed I was finally hungry, really hungry, I had someone go buy me some Wendy's to eat) on the day of the wedding (my ceremony was at 5pm) when things really started happening and I didn't have time to think about stuff. I literally looked white as a ghost. I started to feel a little better part way through getting my hair done at the salon. I went to a really nice one, they gave me crackers and water to help settle my stomach. I thought it was so nice. Plus the girl doing my makeup did wonders! By the time she was done I didn't look white as a ghost anymore. So, don't worry you'll feel better, you just have the jitters.
As for after you are married for a while you feel empty like there is something you should be doing, planning, making favors, etc...but the wedding is over and you don't have to do that stuff anymore. It will take a couple of weeks to a month, but eventually that feeling goes away to and you get back into a normal life rhythm.
Good Luck! AND Congratulations!
2006-11-17 07:51:28 · answer #2 · answered by SNK 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's funny, I did the same exact thing in the days leading up to my wedding. Despite the lack of sleep, I wasn't the least bit tired during the wedding or reception and the lack of appetite just seemed to make my dress look that much better on the big day! Don't worry, it goes away after the wedding. Good luck!
2006-11-17 08:56:51 · answer #3 · answered by Meems 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes that is normal and yes after the BIG DAY is over, the feelings you are having will go away. I'm assuming you are in love with the person you are marrying and what you are experiencing is a little cold feet. Its a big step and like anything new, it takes time to get used to! Good Luck!
2006-11-17 07:20:18 · answer #4 · answered by Ryan P 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey, you feel like you are on a roller coaster, and you just want to get off and throw up. Yes, it's normal, and you really really need to get some sleep tonight. You have the biggest day of your life tomorrow. And you don't want bags under those eyes(cucumber). I don't like taking them, but you may have to take something like a tyenol pm to get a little rest.
I am hoping you are now at your rehearsal dinner, and are enjoying yourself. I know you just want to get the day over with, wedding are so stressful and all that planning, shopping, worrying, it just wears you out both physically and mentally. But fix you a nice warm bath with some lavender scent. Dim the lights, place some cucumbers over your eyes, and relax a little. Play some nice slow romantic songs...tell everyone-you are off duty tonight. Let someone else take the phone, you are going awol.
If tonights your "last night out with the girls" take it easy on the booze if you drink...it makes you gain water weight, and you being so tried it's going to hit you hard. You possibly could wake up with a bad hangover, you don't want that. Slow and easy, nibble with the drinks, don't just drink.
You are finally finally going to get some rest on the honeymoon. You and the groom both. Unless you have crammed a lot of sightseeing into your days away. But you are going to feel stress and rushed for awhile, but try and remember after tomorrow, the hard part is over. Now it's time to concentrate on him and you!
Have the most wonderful and blessed wedding possible! Many many years of happiness!
God bless us all............
ps. if you don't have any tyenol pm, just take a couple of motrin or tyenol, just to help you ease those tensed nerves, it will help!
2006-11-17 11:31:52 · answer #5 · answered by totallylost 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Once you come back from the honey moon, living with your new husband will seem like second nature and the angst you feel today will disappear. Getting married is stressful even with a wedding planner. These feelings are only temporary. Take deep breathes, repeat what it is that your supposed to be doing, then do it. Mazeltov,best wishes.
2006-11-17 07:20:12 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I got married in July of this year I felt the same thing It will go once you walk down the Ilse. Don't worry it doesn't stay it is just a classic case of cold feet. Good luck tomorrow and for your marriage.
2006-11-17 08:19:32 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
CONGRATULATIONS!!!
You're just excited, that's alll! And nervous over The Big Day.....it'll go away when it's all done and over with.
The Munya was so excited she couldn't even eat her own wedding cake! But that's just the Munya's way.
Good luck and best wishes for a long and happy marriage.
2006-11-17 07:12:11 · answer #8 · answered by Munya Says: DUH! 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Months of making plans, gown fittings, organizing each little element has finally come right down to those final moments. you will possibly no longer are conscious of it yet your suggestions continues to be going over each element, hoping each little thing is going off with none problems. Weddings are huge events that take alot of making plans & coordination. as quickly as the ceremony is over you will no longer even care on the subject of the main significant factors anymore. i thought i could be fussing over each centerpiece & prefer yet to enable you to already know the reality i do no longer even think of i spotted that stuff until I observed the photos later. do no longer project it is going to all be over quickly. relax, get somebody to furnish your shoulders a rub tonite and attempt to get as plenty relax as you are able to...you have have been given dancin to do the next day lady!! good success & congrats!!
2016-10-22 06:33:56 · answer #9 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You will be fine! Listen to some perky music and dance around to loosen yourself up!
After you are married, you will be tired for many other reasons, but you won't complain about them! lol!
Wish you luck and Happy Wedding!
2006-11-17 07:59:10 · answer #10 · answered by Lydia 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Congrats......I wish you the best and yes that is very normal for the first few months you wake up excited about making breakfast/dinner wearing something sexy to bed for him and changing your documents it's all fun.
2006-11-17 07:33:40 · answer #11 · answered by Mrs. Butler ♥2 B♥ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋