Even if it were someone famous?
2006-11-17 07:04:18 · 30 answers · asked by huckypeep2 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Not if it were someone famous, that doesn't bug me too much. It's not like Pam Anderson (she is #1 on my husband's list, right beside Katherine Zeta-Jones) is going to knock down the door and take him away. If he said someone else was hot (regular person) I'd probably be jealous, but I have total trust that he wouldn't act on it.
2006-11-17 07:07:45 · answer #1 · answered by Peach 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I guess it would depend on how the comment was made. I have a healthy appreciation for the opposite sex, but I also think that Diane Lane is hot. That doesn't mean that I'm fatasizing about how hot she is or that I want to get with her. But, when I make a comment about George Clooney, it's another story.
It's natural to be attracted to people. If your man is not being disrespectful and lustful in his tone, let him say someone is hot. It doesn't make you any less hot? Acting insecure without merit, well, that will make you less hot.
2006-11-17 15:10:25 · answer #2 · answered by kerber22 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, there will always be that portion of jealousy but there's a thin line where it would be okay and disrespectful. I used to get pissed when my boyfriend of two years would say stuff like that when we were out to dinner or at the mall or whatever, and as long as he's not outright checking them out, if he looks, tell you he likes her style or whatever, he's probably hinting at you. Maybe that you could wear something a little sexier like that or do your make up like this or whatever. Guys sometimes have a wierd way of telling you things. My boyfriend said he didn't just tell me straight up because he was worried I would get offensive and think he was unsatisfied with me or something, so he tried hinting. Just tell him to keep his thoughts to himself, ask him how it would make him feel if you commented on how hot some other guy was right in front of him. Turning the tables always works
2006-11-17 15:09:28 · answer #3 · answered by peace318sb 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My husband and I joke all the time about that. There are about 4 or 5 actresses out there that he comments on when he sees them, and there are 4 or 5 actors that I comment on periodically. Relax. Neither one of us actually want to sleep with them. It's human nature to look, and if you are really comfortable in your marriage, then both of you should be able to make innocent comments without the other one getting upset.
2006-11-17 15:09:18 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No... its about being secure with yourself.
Yep...those famous women and a lot of women in general are hotter than I will ever be...But I like me..I'm ok :) And he's mine.
We actually have fun commenting to each other, I mean I may be woman, but I can still see if another gal is sexy or not.
make light of it...and point out someone you find really hot.
2006-11-17 15:08:57 · answer #5 · answered by Shakira 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Naw, he doesn't really do that with me, and even if he did, I'd probably tease him about it instead of getting upset. If it's a celebrity, what's the point of getting mad...The odds of him ever having a chance with her are slim, sweetie. Just give them a taste of their own medicine, next time a hot guys on tv...make it a point to drool all over him. I'm telling you, it's not worth losing sleep over, UNLESS he's doing it on a regular basis, then that's when it could become a problem.
2006-11-17 15:08:16 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not if it someone famous, c'mon you think Pam Anderson is going to end up at his doorstep and try to rape him????? And besides, there are a ton of hot women out there,
Now if it was a friend of mine...different story...very different story. It would make me pissy even though maybe it shouldn't, I just would wonder why I had to hear that...ya know.
I think the fact that a guy, if it is a celeb. says he thinks shes hot..hey, trust him more, he's just being honest.!!!!!!!!
2006-11-17 15:11:22 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No I wouldnt be mad, me and my wife do this all the time but when the day is done we are with each other cause we love and trust each other. if its some one famous we really dont care casue there is even less of a chance of infidelity. Trust helps alot.
2006-11-17 15:08:04 · answer #8 · answered by fatpeople_atemy_family 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, I would be a little upset. Even if it were a movie star, etc. I would still be kinda upset because I would feel like he wanted me to look like the other person.
2006-11-17 15:06:58 · answer #9 · answered by bellebelle113 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i wouldnt be upset if it were someone famous but if we were on the street and he said some girl was hot id be ticked and a little self-conscious.
2006-11-17 15:08:35 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋