I am a 20 female in college and I have always had boyfriends but I have become more and more turned on by other girls. is this a phase. I am very feminie and a girls girl and dont know what to do.
2006-11-17 06:43:33 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
it could be a phase....but relax don't rush anything.....the truth is most of us women are attracted to other women....we just don't admit it.....I like men too....but I was attracted to this one girl with long legs, and beautiful breasts in college...nothing happened, but i think about her sometimes.....
2006-11-17 06:47:27 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Help?...Umm why do you need help? There's nothing wrong with it. Explore it and see if it's what you really like. If you're more comfortable with a girl then rock on and don't worry about anything else. Even if it's a phase make the most of it and find out know instead of when you're unhappy married for years with kids.
2006-11-17 06:50:25 · answer #2 · answered by pickles 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
not sure could be just a phase, however in my case it was due to my bad choices in men that made me find women more attractive. i've heard and found to be true in some cases that a woman knows what a woman wants. so good luck and dont be afraid to experiment a little.
2006-11-17 06:47:29 · answer #3 · answered by thinkofmealwayslver 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just because you are thinking about something does not mean that it is your thought( I know that sounds nuts but track with me).
Have you ever hear someone humming a song and found yourself singing it? It was not your thought but it was in your head.
If you want to change what you are thinking about then change what you see and hear. If you are around allot of gay people you may want to make an effort to be around husbands and wives who love each other. Take a look at what you are listening to.
2006-11-17 06:49:55 · answer #4 · answered by Today is the Day 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your just going through that phase where everyone likes to try wild things while in college. Believe me they can't take the place of the real thing.
2006-11-17 06:47:18 · answer #5 · answered by My two cents 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is nothing wrong with a bit of experimentation :) It might be a phase then again it might not. The best thing to do is explore otherwise you'll only obsess about it.
2006-11-17 06:47:06 · answer #6 · answered by jen 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It could be a phase but it won't be over till you go through with it. You may be curious or fed up with men.. i think most women go through a "bi-curious" phase, I did but I know I'm straight. There's no harm in experimenting.
2006-11-17 06:56:25 · answer #7 · answered by peace318sb 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you are bisexual, it is not uncommon these days for women to be bisexual, in fact, there are a lot of guys that LOVE women like this. The beauty of accepting that fact, is you then have your pick of well, everybody, and that makes things a lot more interesting right? Good luck.
2006-11-17 06:46:46 · answer #8 · answered by Cillosis 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you're not sure of your sexual orientation. You could be bi if you're still attracted to men sexually. College is a time for experimentation so if you meet other bi or lesbian women give it a shot if you feel it's right.
2006-11-17 06:50:14 · answer #9 · answered by hearts99992000 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Step up to the plate and take a couple of swings to see if you really like the game. If so, play ball, if not, then dont play the game.
2006-11-17 06:46:13 · answer #10 · answered by teenypurplebinky 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋