Men only please.. a woman question to do with religion?

Question

You have heard of the saying that their is the kind of woman you have sex with, and then their is the one you marrie. Does this imply a woman with good Chrisitan values? The type of woman you take home to the mamma? Just wondering

Answer 1

For a believer marriage can only come between Him and a believing woman to do less is disobedience.... Jim

Answer 2

People who have that stone aged idea perpetuate a double standard and try to push all the gult and responsiblity for their own sexual conduct onto their female sex partner. Many cultures have a tradition of "transferring sin" onto other sub-classes of people, including some Hindus and Buddhists. They force lower classes to take the blame for their own sin. For example, a lower class person would kill and cut your meat, so when you finally eat it, all the sin for the killing and cutting goes on the person who prepared it. The sexual sin thing is the same type of thing. Men have sex with women and the stigma of the sin stays with the woman and not the man. This is why they woudl not marry this person.

Answer 3

I think many American men think good Christian values are old fashioned and don't care. However if you value integrity, virginity, and faithfullness you should wait for someone with the same values. Any guy who has been with girls just for sex should stick with them, but better men will wait and look for a woman of integrity. There is some truth to your statment in that you wouldn't introduce a girl friend to you parents with whom you had no expectation of a future.

Answer 4

Most men want a lady in public and a whore in the bedroom. So be sweet and kind and show your morals around people but when alone with your man throw that all away and be a little crazy.lol.
Love & Light
Sharon
One Planet = One People

Answer 5

Well sweetie, that "saying" is often said by the ignorant. The bible is clear that sex is strictly designed for married couples and no one else. It is when "a man and woman become one flesh". So the kind of woman that you marry is the kind to have sex with. :) From a Christian's perspective, I am looking for a devout follower of Jesus Christ to have sex with AFTER marriage. I hope this helps!

God bless.

Answer 6

It does not matter the religion there are some christian women that you would only take to a motel (no offense) i dont even know what my gf religion is, i would not bring her home to my parents until i have been dating her for at least a month or 5 years :) (my family is crazy!) but i am taking her to my aunts house,
she is crazy but funny as hell :)

Answer 7

Christian? Good values? I've never met such, but sure I don't care what your religion a girl is if they have good values and are a good person to others and try to help the problems of the world today.

Answer 8

The kind of woman you marry isn't the same kind of woman who'll have sex with you in the handicap stall at the bar. What men want from a wife is closer to "mother" than "lover" in most cases.

Answer 9

Many Catholic men are of that persuasion-- from being taught that there are only two types of women: Mary Magdalen (prostitute), and Mary, Mother of Jesus (eternal virgin.) I personally don't believe in passing judgment, since Jesus defended women of "easy virtue," (and children,) while condemning high and mighty religious leaders.
"' A harlot's love, a harlot's lie'... cast that ancient proverb by. Calpurnia's heart was purer, far--Roman matrons, than yours are."

Answer 10

The Bottom Line, is that every man wants a woman who is a saint in public, and a whore in the bedroom...