my girlfriend does not like sex with me. it seems to be a chore to her. why don't females like sex? did the gods not endow them with the ability to enjoy it? not matter how many times i try i cannot get her to enjoy it. i have heard of some women saying they enjoy sex, but this must be a minority. i am speculating that for the majority of women the vagina is merely a birth canal and/or a money making instrument.
2006-11-17 06:21:32 · 46 answers · asked by pi 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Because men don't like foreplay.
2006-11-17 07:07:16 · answer #1 · answered by Jamie H 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You couldn't be more wrong. I love sex but not with every single guy. Some guys have no idea what they are doing, some guys are just plain boring and others there is absolutely no chemistry with. If a women doesn't enjoy the sex she obviously doesn't want to do it often. Other than that women have a lot to do. After going to work, cleaning the house and cooking dinner they are tired. Maybe you can take some of that off her shoulders so she isn't too tired for sex. Just some suggestions.
2006-11-17 06:28:41 · answer #2 · answered by JustMe 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know where your getting this information but i enjoy having sex but there's been some partners that i prefer not to ever venture there again because it just wasn't worth the time. And before you start bashing females about sex maybe it's you since you seem to deal with women who don't like it , you need to take the time to find out what your doing wrong because it's very rare that a guy meets alot of women like that so check yourself. You may find out it's not the female at all. Good Luck!
2006-11-17 06:28:37 · answer #3 · answered by 2sweet4u 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know, it's not that they don't like sex. When first dating, sex is a tool that women use. Once they have you, it's not that important to many. Also, we as men do not really do much to spice things up. We want it and want it now. Our whole primal needs pretty much leave nothing for a woman to enjoy. Talk to her, and LISTEN. Many women get turned off by it because it becomes a chore or a habit. Be creative, be spontaneous, be ROMANTIC. You know for alot of women, it's the whole experience leading up to SEX, and not necessarily the act itself. You'd be surprises what candles, music and the right ambiance can do for your situation. The little things mean alot to them. Take the time to do these things. She wil appreciate the fact that you are going out of your way, FOR HER!!
2006-11-17 08:08:03 · answer #4 · answered by augienolasco 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, don't generalize. You can speculate all you want but it seems kind of ridiculous for you to presume to speak for the majority of women. There are women that don't like sex and there are men that don't like sex. Generalizing based on your experience with one is just silly.
Maybe your girlfriend really doesn't like sex or maybe you need to take the time to find out what she does like, what 'turns her on'. Sometimes a person's reaction to sex has as much to do with where your relationship is as it does the xes itself.
2006-11-17 06:26:12 · answer #5 · answered by toff 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I really do enjoy sex as long as the man is not worried about just pleasing himself. You need to communicate with her and ask her to tell you what she likes in bed. It is possible that you have not been pleasing her and she feels it is a chore to have sex with you because she is not getting any pleasure from you. Try giving her oral and take your time with her don't rush into sex just so you can get off.
2006-11-17 06:25:49 · answer #6 · answered by cmsmith114 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It depends on a lot of things sex is highly emotional for women, everything in her life effects everything else, so if shes just stressed out because she has a stupid boyfriend, then it will effect sex, also I don't know how experienced she is but I think it takes awhile to be comfortable with it, and pysically to get used to it...and stop speculating, cuz it makes you look like a uneducated @sshole !!
2006-11-17 06:25:41 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 0⤋
Instead of thinking that the problem resides with your girlfriend, maybe you should look yourself in the mirror and ask what are you doing that makes her not so into it? Do you sit there, get a bj then tell her to jump on, or are you actually doing something with her that she likes?
I'm surprised she's even sleeping with you, you sound like a selfish jerk. She must REALLY be desperate!
2006-11-17 06:26:08 · answer #8 · answered by tipper 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
WOW YOU ARE SO WRONG. You think that just because your g/f isn't enjoying sex, that the women who say they DO enjoy it must be in the minority!? Well you are SO wrong, in fact a LOT of women enjoy it MORE than men!
2006-11-17 06:24:23 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
When we open the eye of reality - sex is not every thing - sex is the emotional bondage - it is just a sensuous pleasure and an attempt to loose the vital energy of the body - a matured mind and practical minds can't revolve its mind always towards the word sex. They see the goal where they need to go in life.
2006-11-17 06:27:30 · answer #10 · answered by Angel 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You said it, she does not like sex with YOU! Have you asked her if she likes it with other guys or if she had ever liked it?
Don't assume that most women do not like it. It is a matter of principle and conditioning whether anyone enjoys sex.
Take a long look at yourself first before stereotyping.
2006-11-17 06:25:43 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋