2006-11-17 06:17:10 · 17 answers · asked by bone 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Even tho it is SO HARD to believe. You wont always feel like this. You wont always feel SO IN LOVE with this someone. I know it hurts, and feels terrible, like you just wanna curl up and die... But With time, you will get over this. In my past I have done feng shway to make myself feel better and it always works. Its where you change all the little things. Such as rearranging your house, room, closet, clean out your fridge, pantry, cabinets, move your dvd's... just move stuff around. You will occupy time and then you wont think about the person all the time because everything else will be mentally stimulating you because its different. I know it sounds cheesy but it works. Good luck
2006-11-17 06:20:36 · answer #1 · answered by Angel Eve 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
The answer is simple: you don't. But the pain fades over time and eventually your love transforms into something else, something you can deal with. You will always feel a pang now and then for what was or what you felt could have been, but in time it gets easier. When that happens, your love for that person becomes less like a burden and more like an old friend who's made a journey with you, etc. In the meantime you live your life, have new experiences and hopefully find new love. As I say that old love will always be there inside you somewhere, but as you move through life you'll find it relegated to the back burner of your mind.
2006-11-17 06:33:20 · answer #2 · answered by snaithbert 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know. It sucks. It is a pain just like physical ailments. You have to heal and move on and get back to life and being a part of it.
What you need to understand is that true love conquers all and that if you are broken up or not together anymore - as painful as it sounds - it was not what some people call "true love".
We live in different times now. But even disregarding time periods - one has to understand that relationships are a many. You cannot let feelings for someone be the only "true love" indicators.
Not to take anything away from your lost relationship - but you need to come to terms that it is over and that it was a special time in your life. You lived. You learned. You felt great. Take those experiences and use them to launch your next stage of life.
2006-11-17 06:22:43 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can still love them, but you have to move on. Love is a gift and doesn't have to be reciprocated. However, in order for you to have a life and move on you need to find someone else so that you can be happy. You don't have to hate the previous person in order to do this. Just find new things that interest you and get busy. Find some hobbies, get a job, or a new one if need be, and start volunteering somewhere. You make yourself more attractive when you're outside of yourself and meeting new people and thinking less of yourself and the person from the past.
2006-11-17 06:22:37 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You think that now, but believe me... over time, the feelings fade. People really don't stay in love with someone forever. They move on, mature, meet new people, evolve, and perhaps look back on their former love fondly. But you won't always be in love with them. Get busy with your own life, and the memories will fade. Especially if you stop communicating with them.
2006-11-17 06:20:38 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You won't actually always "be in love" with them, but you might love them. The best way is to try to forget about them by going out and having fun, stay active to keep that person off your mind.
2006-11-17 06:19:56 · answer #6 · answered by beauty 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Phew am also in the same Situation now!
but i dont find it something i can know from others..just keep loving them inside & live life happpierly..the more u try to forget is the more they will RUN on ur mind
2006-11-17 06:23:20 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you're able to nicely be stupid every time, expensive photos...for even once you're stupid, you're benign and amazing! Sorrows fall regularly on deaf ears, distinctly the sorrows of people who sense profoundly. for such sorrows frighten people who've chosen the ease, the fake convenience of superficiality. And yet i might particularly sense to the very speedy, the very Bone...i wouldn't prefer to omit a component of Sorrow or excitement! And if via doing this, i'm on my own...and could face my sorrows that way...even in such duress, i might wish my sorrows have been 1000-fold!!!
2016-10-22 06:29:42 · answer #8 · answered by titman 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As time goes by your love for them will change. You will always have a special place in your heart for them and when you think back it will make you smile.
2006-11-17 06:40:09 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
someday u will remember this question and how u were in pain and u will laugh because in this moment u will realize that u found yr real love
that means that u will never forget this person u loved but u will be cured from that pain believe me
don't cry because it is over , be happy because it happened
2006-11-17 07:04:42 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋