my b/f is texting another girl and he does not know i know do you htink he is cheating
2006-11-17 06:13:05 · 40 answers · asked by yours truly 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Texting another girl does not sound like cheating. The text he is sending would determine if he is cheating.
Take care,
Troy
2006-11-17 06:15:20 · answer #1 · answered by tiuliucci 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In one way or another he is cheating because if this girl was just a friend then you would know about her...Now is the hard part you need to figure out how much you want to be with him and then confront him with what you know. You might want to first get the girls number from the phone (since you already know about the text) and give her a call, be calm and ask her what is going on and if she knows about you. You both might be getting played and it would do him right not to have either of you in the end if he is cheating!!
2006-11-17 07:09:11 · answer #2 · answered by ♥Ta Loca♥ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are his girlfriend, why is it necessary for him to text another girl...about anything?!??? I'm sorry to say that is how most affairs start out. He'd probably tell you that she's just a friend that he's known for a long time if you were to confront him about it. But if that's the case why doesn't introduce the two of you and you could all be friends? If it's harmless and nothing to it she shouldn't be a secret.
To your face or behind your back it add up to the same thing: disrespect. If he doesn't want to stay in the relationship anymore he should be man enough to confront you and tell you that.
Out of curiosity how did you find out he was texting her? Were you snooping?
2006-11-17 06:21:46 · answer #3 · answered by Arleen J 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey! Right listen hun, as much as I would love to say 'just end it with him if you dont trust him', I can't. I know how you're feeling.. I have been through it! You can't let him know you looked through his phone as he could accuse you of invading his privacy. You need to 'accidently' come across these texts in his view. Look through his phone when he's with you at photos he has etc. Then go 'oh.. so who's this you;ve been texting?' Act as though you've just discovered them. It will cover your tracks as then he wont know you've done anything wrong by looking, as he knew you were doing it!
If he gets all defensive, there is a chance he is cheating. If he tells you it's a friend, you could suggest 'oh i didn't know.. sorry. Maybe we could all go out sometime'. If she's really his friend, he wont have a problem with it. If he does, then maybe you should just ask him outright what is going on. This should help you out a lot! Good luck! If you need any extra help, just ask!
Love Charley xxxx
2006-11-17 08:49:14 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its true that it depends on what they are writing about. Never assume anything unless there is proof. Get answers to these questions; "Has he ever given me reason to believe he is cheating? What is his relationship with the girl he is texting? What will I do if he is cheating?" There are ways to be rational about these kinds of subjects especially if they're just friends. He isn't actual property. Another thing is you don't want to look like the overly jealous girlfriend, that never works for anyone.
2006-11-17 06:22:01 · answer #5 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, it defintely isn't a good sign that he's keeping it a secret from you. confront him with your knowledge and see how he reacts. if he gets nervous, that's really not good at all. if he simply explains how he knows her and since when etcetera, it's probably okay. he's still in trouble for keeping it a secret though. what are you supposed to think? he might keep it a secret because he doesn't want you to be upset, but seriously, a man keeping any kind of relationship with another female a secret has a bad track record in the history of relationships. confront him. good luck!!
2006-11-17 06:20:50 · answer #6 · answered by gabriela 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends, is he being secretive about it? mine doesn't really text other girls, and i like it that way cause then there's no room at all for suspicion, he just doesn't have the desire to text another girl, he doesn't even really talk to other girls, most of his friends are guys, he used to have girl friends but then kinda said bye to them once we got serious, so in a way, ur boyfriend could be tempted to or thinking about it, but then again, maybe not, maybe he is actually just FRIENDS with her? follow ur gut, as long as ur rational
2006-11-17 06:16:08 · answer #7 · answered by Kollege Gurl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nope, If I trust him, then it wouldn't bother me....the other girl could just be good friends....Now if they were texts that he shouldn't be saying to another girl, then I would confront him before I started thinking he was cheating on me!
2006-11-17 06:18:14 · answer #8 · answered by Tommy's_Sweet_Girl 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You shouldn't just assume he's cheating on you just because he talks to another girl. Just come clean and ask him about it casually. If he's not cheating on you I'm pretty sure he'll tell you who it is he's texting.
2006-11-17 06:15:48 · answer #9 · answered by Beebee07 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, if i found out my b/f was texting another girl. i wouldn't automatically assume that he was cheating. i'd ask him if i can read his text messages. including the ones he's sending. if he refuses or is keeping secret about it. i would be very suspicious that he was cheating.
happened to me before. made me very angry and paranoid. cuz he would always delete the messages after he was done.
2006-11-17 06:16:36 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋