And then they get pissed off when you don't jump back to how the way things were? I mean, what, are guys supposed to be emotionless? I don't bloody get it...
2006-11-17 06:06:50 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
And I just realized that she lead me on the whole time too. I mean...WTF...?
2006-11-17 06:08:32 · update #1
You're not alone !!!! Going thru the very same thing right now ! SHE is the one that ultimately decided that things were going to end......and yet, she wants to be "friends". I say FU(K THAT!!!! Don't let me trust you, love you, believe in you (and 'us') give me hopes of a future...and then take it away and expect me to still WANT to be 'friends'....knowing that someone else is having what was supposed to be mine/ours.....!!!!!!
2006-11-17 06:11:45 · answer #1 · answered by barhopper 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Most women are not like this. What this means is that you ignored all the nice, normal women around you and chose the psycho. I say chose because women NEVER do any of the behaviors that initiate a relationship. It was all you and you have no one to blame but yourself.
Do yourself a favor. Break off all contact with this fruitloop and ignore all attempts for her to be in your life. You are a MAN. She is a little girl. If you don't want her around, there is almost nothing she can do about it without you specifically choosing to comply.
Now, take your free time and go out and get one of the majority of women are nice and normal. How do you know they are nice and normal? Simple. When you are good and loving to a nice, normal woman, this really ramps up the interest she has in you, She becomes very attached to you and seeks to deepen the relationship. A psychotic loser does just the opposite. If you are nice to her, she loses interest. But, try to leave and she is all over you to stay. She only wants what she can't have and disrespects you if she does have you. Also, she constantly goads you, hoping to get you to smack her around. That's what excites her sexually...evil men who might hurt her. Nice normal women will immediately leave you if you act that way towards them. They will also dump you if you aren't showing sufficient interest and love towards them. Psychotic losers are the opposite.
Now, think back to your relationship with the woman you are talking about. Is she a nice, normal girl or a psychotic loser? I know what she is but it's important that YOU be able to tell the difference.
Failure to do this will result in immense suffering on your part. So, you better figure it out.
2006-11-17 06:16:25 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Because all women are insane, it is just a matter of how insane they are. The scale technically goes from 1 to 10, but I have never seen below a 4, and I have actually seen an 11.
2015-01-12 14:30:14 · answer #3 · answered by ... 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The last time I agreed with a guy to "just be friends" was the last time I talked to him, and that was in August of 2002. It was actually like the day after I met my husband, so I had a bit of a distraction from contacting him.
2006-11-17 06:10:23 · answer #4 · answered by Gabby_Gabby_Purrsalot 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah tell me about it guys are the same way. They need to accept that things will probably never be the same again. She needs to realize that you are hurt and she needs to give you space and time to heal and after that you may need to move on and away. I know Im going thru the same thing with my friend.
2006-11-17 06:16:07 · answer #5 · answered by kgirl28 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
If she led you on then you say no i'm ok with the friend thing. She said that maybe she also could have been using you. Don't be friends with her you can do better.
2006-11-17 06:10:30 · answer #6 · answered by crrousey 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
People are people, some good , some are bad, just keep in mind that what goes around comes around. She will get hers in the long run. You cannot go around playing with peoples feelings and nothing happens. Eventually, it will come back on her. You reap what you sow. God bless****************************************
2006-11-17 06:11:53 · answer #7 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They really want you to go away (forever). They just don't have the heart to tell it like it is.
2006-11-17 06:10:03 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
They mean that you should not turn into a psychopath and try to kill them.
2006-11-17 06:08:36 · answer #9 · answered by prairiegurrl 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it means that you should learn to be wise. and being wise means accepting what is going on and learning from it.
2006-11-17 06:09:42 · answer #10 · answered by Grasshopper 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋