i like this girl and she likes me but shes confused on how to tell her boyfriend and he and her are no more involved or rather dont like eachother but he just wants to keep her and i really dont want to go meet him cos she doesnt want me to but he's holding us back and he sees me with her everyday and he knows that we like eachother, we are even together more than he is with her, and the worst part is he sees us together but its just that technically she is still his girlfriend cos they havent broken up he just keeps stalling but in reallity shes mine . so pls wat do i do ?
2006-11-17 05:08:19 · 6 answers · asked by Vergil 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
be a man - do one of the following:
step to him and tell him that it's over because you have taken his girl or,
wait till the two of you are in front of him, then make sure he can see the two of you, then give her a big kiss on the lips and grab her @$$. Then look him in the eyes and walk away with her.
2006-11-17 05:27:08 · answer #1 · answered by Mister 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To be simple, she needs to break up with him. Breakups are never easy unless both individuals see that they are not going anywhere , not happy, ones not happy, etc. He may be keeping her around to make him look good in others eyes, but not really into the relationship. Evidently he know you two are friends and if he hasn't inquired into why shes hanging out with you, he may be waiting on her to break up with him and doesn't want to be the bad person in initiating the breakup. Since this will give him the upper hand in others eyes as not initiating the separation and may serve as power over the situation. Good Luck!
2006-11-17 13:18:20 · answer #2 · answered by kevin T 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think the girl should handle this situation. I mean...it's her boyfriend. She should tell him it's over and be done with it. The guy can't make her do anything she doesn't want to. So I'm not sure if she told him and he doesn't care or she may be stalling for whatever reason. You really need to talk to your girl and find out what's the deal.
2006-11-17 13:15:08 · answer #3 · answered by The girl next door 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Until she figures out how to get out of the unwanted relationship with the other guy, you need to separate yourself from the situation.
It is my impression that if she really wants to leave the guy she will. If she is confused then you are adding to that confusion because you aren't asking her to make a choice. You accept her on any terms, so why shouldn't she have the best of you both?
2006-11-17 13:12:43 · answer #4 · answered by Angela 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she needs to get some balls and just tell him it's over and there is someone else and move on
2006-11-17 13:12:49 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
that has got to be the longest sentence i ever read in my miserable life
2006-11-17 13:13:52 · answer #6 · answered by kevin 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋