If you've gone out with your partner for 2 months, meeting up 2-3 times per week, been intimate, do you think it would be too early to decide if he/she is girl/boyfriend material?
2006-11-17 05:04:38 · 30 answers · asked by vpg121 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Hello,
The short answer to your question is No! 2months is quite an appropriate length of time to decide.
**However, I suspect your asking this question now because you still have some anxieties or niggling doubtes, its obvious your still undecided yourself. Only you can decide if you want this person to remain your partner or boyfriend/girlfriend.
**I'd trust your heart feelings, trust your intuition, trust how consistently this partner behaves towards you. Do they really want the same things you want? Does this person fullfil your needs on more than one level.
**I could go on and say alot more but I think I've said enough for now. Best Regards IR.
2006-11-17 05:12:42 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Of course not. Why do people feel they have to put a time restraint on everything. Follow your heart. I personally think that should have been decided before you two got intimate. If you really care about someone and want them to be in your life there is no right or wrong time. I think you'll know when the time is right.
2006-11-17 05:10:46 · answer #2 · answered by Heaven26 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, and you might want to reconsider being physically intimate with a person you've only known for 60 days.Give it 6+ months at least.
2006-11-17 05:06:36 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-12-10 10:50:36 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NOOOOOOO!!! She is probably waiting and wondering if you want to take it to the next level? Also, it really just depends on how you feel about one another. Why does there have to be a time limit? If you think to much about it then bad things start happening. Go with the flow!!! Take a chance!!!
2006-11-17 05:29:05 · answer #5 · answered by kimmie42 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Naw if you guys are having sex then you have some sort of feelings for each other see how the other feels and decide from there if you guys want to be f-u-c-k Buddies or some thing more serious
2006-11-17 05:08:29 · answer #6 · answered by Lab Runner 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well jeez, you should know if someone is bf/gf material BEFORE sleeping with them. But then it all depends on what kind of relationship you want.
2006-11-17 05:08:18 · answer #7 · answered by zmj 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give it 6 months or more !
2006-11-17 05:07:58 · answer #8 · answered by joel s 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, i think this is plenty of time to have got to know someone enough to consider them as your girl/boy friend.
2006-11-17 05:13:31 · answer #9 · answered by trixi 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That sounds like the whole boyfriend/girlfriend package to me ...
2006-11-17 05:05:56 · answer #10 · answered by Funky Little Spacegirl 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋