2006-11-17 05:01:16 · 22 answers · asked by Tina R 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
when they only speak to you when they either want to ask for something, for a favor, or just something for their own benefit
2006-11-17 05:03:30 · answer #1 · answered by × 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There's no way to actually "know" when someone's using you. I was so in love with this one guy, and he said his feeling's were mutal, but turns out that he only wanted to have sex with me. And after I gave in, he never called me again. So, just go with your gut feeling, if you think he's using you, most likely he is. There shouldn't even be a doubt in your mind. Good Luck !
2006-11-17 13:04:21 · answer #2 · answered by Von-Von 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When the only time they talk to you is when they want something, or have a tendency to show more affection to someone else but say they care about you. Anything along those lines really.
2006-11-17 13:03:35 · answer #3 · answered by Diagonal 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Trust your gut (instinct). Its when you feel that there is more give than take in the relationship/friendship. You start feeling uncomfortable & unhappy with the person's company. If you feel there are too mancy coincidences to be true, then you are definitely being used.
2006-11-17 13:06:52 · answer #4 · answered by atts 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have the same promblem i think this guy is using me for a sex we have known each other for 2yrs and we started having sex in septemeber and we have had sex 3 times but no relationship.. he is either using me or just doesnt want a relationship with me im in love with him so i really dnt no its so hard!
2006-11-17 13:07:55 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
When they are disrespectful, when they always ask for stuff and never do anything for you in return. If the only time you see or hear from them is when they want something, they are using you.
2006-11-17 13:03:32 · answer #6 · answered by me 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They hang wit you when you give them something weather its sex or gifts and they dont give you any thing in returen even if its spending time with you when they dont want to. If they cant give you what you want and its a one way street get out while you can
2006-11-17 13:04:23 · answer #7 · answered by Lab Runner 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your sixth sense and the attitude of other will tell you, dont act blindly what some one says. Think before doing the same.
2006-11-17 13:06:26 · answer #8 · answered by Paassion 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When they dont take the time out of their lives doing things for u also. Just as much as u do for them.
2006-11-17 13:02:41 · answer #9 · answered by Baby Jack born 4/5/09 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The feeling of dissatisfaction should do it. Or other person being inconsiderate and asking for things they can do/get themselves ! Thats when you begin to say, " im busy, i have things to do" .
2006-11-17 13:05:19 · answer #10 · answered by lopez76g 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you give more into the relationship then they do. that is using. it should be 50/50 in a friendship.
2006-11-17 13:03:38 · answer #11 · answered by Derick Graham 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋