iv been with him for 2 years we had our ups and downs. i mean i cheated and he took me back.. we brook up for like 2 months he started talking to someone else i was ok with it if he only left me alone but instead he was calling me not letting me do anything saying he still loves me now were together its been 7 months now i still get mad sometimes that i want to break up.but hes really nice and he wants to make it work..is it just me or what should i do i mean he did it when we were not together.
2006-11-17 04:57:53 · 15 answers · asked by ♫♥♪♬♥♪Try Me♫♥♪♫♥♪♬ 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Sounds like you both are a bunch of children and have no true meaning of personal direction- that equals to LOST in your own little worlds and playing house games.
2006-11-17 05:04:03 · answer #1 · answered by gallagher g 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow, it seems as if you and your boyfriend have had some hard times. Are you familiar with the saying "sometimes you go through so much with a person that you should stay together and sometimes you go through so much that you need to be apart. You need to decide for yourself if the relationship is worth saying.
Personally speaking, I'm a female that's been through something similar. I think life is too short and time is of the essence and it shouldn't be taken for granted. You never know when your time is up so you should live your life to the fullest and spend time with people who make you happy. You deserve to be happy. Let it go. Seems to me as if you both need to find other people to be with.
A loving relationship is not supposed to be like that. Heck, you're not even married to him. You shouldn't want to be in a relationship of that sort and neither should he.
Move on!
2006-11-17 13:07:15 · answer #2 · answered by Heaven26 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm in a relationship just like your except for the cheating, I want to leave him also but its hard because it's been 7 years. I have to tell you it has not gotten any better. I'm still there because I feel as if I have invested too many years and it's hard to move on. don't be like me, if you feel as if its time to move on you better move on or you will be regreating it in the long run.
2006-11-17 13:08:22 · answer #3 · answered by Cowgirl Joe 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow dont to it to him you already broke his heart once stop playing him if you want to be with him the stop being a Bit-ch and work as hard as he is other wise end it now befor it gets even more worse and you cheat on him again
2006-11-17 13:02:14 · answer #4 · answered by Lab Runner 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if u dont want to be with him then dont. dont sit there and drag it on to make him believe that u really do care. he obviously cares for u since he took u back from cheating and was always calling u when u broke up. with u dont want to be with him then sit down with him and have a conversation, tell him how ur feeling, and if it comes down to it break up with him
2006-11-17 13:04:24 · answer #5 · answered by ..::..Lovin him..::.. 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you don't wanna be envolved with him anymore. Then let it go, you two still could be friends. But if the loves not there anymore, what's the point in holding on ?
2006-11-17 13:02:19 · answer #6 · answered by Von-Von 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just end it, because if you both can't work it out, then just be friends or not even anything at all, good luck girl, i hope you will find the right guy.
2006-11-17 13:07:33 · answer #7 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you ask what you should do but read your own question - it says " I want to break up with my boyfriend" thats your answer. If you want to end things then do so.
2006-11-17 13:03:40 · answer #8 · answered by GAgirl 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if you dont want to be with him you cant make yourself love him if it made you happier when you without him then break up with him your only going to hurt him and yourself more by staying
2006-11-17 13:02:24 · answer #9 · answered by Kylee M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to tell him up front how you feel b/c if your not happy then your never going to be happy with him.
2006-11-17 13:04:00 · answer #10 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋