My EX girlfriend lives 200 miles away and i think she is going to commit suicide . iv tried her friends but have had no joy . iv tried the samaritans to see if they can phone her but they cant . what can i do ?
2006-11-17 04:31:07 · 40 answers · asked by bob a builder 2 in Health ➔ Mental Health
she says she cant take anymore of everyone shitting on her and hopes that i will piss on her grave . maybe im just being paranoid . i have contacted her friend .but she dosent seem that bothered .
2006-11-17 04:39:40 · update #1
she has not said that she is gonna do this i just think with the stuff she has said that she is .
2006-11-17 04:46:09 · update #2
If you seriously think this might happen - you need to contact the local authorities. They won't take this situation lightly.
If she's possibly going to harm herself or others, they will investigate.
Where's her family - you should also contact them but don't wait for them to call the police.
YOU need to do this NOW.
2006-11-17 04:40:22 · answer #1 · answered by The First Lady 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Very often threats of suicide are a form of manipulation. Which in turn is a form of emotional abuse. If you are the only person she's telling this to, she's just trying to send you on the guilt trip, well don't let her. Contact her family, also tell her that you will be contacting social services hot line in her area, which you really should do no matter what, every state has some kind of hot line for situations like this one, they will be able to have a counselor contact her. I think she's bluffing.
2006-11-17 05:12:43 · answer #2 · answered by SnowJinx 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you contacted her parents or other family members? They could help her more effectively.
Have you been talking to her? You could try visiting her over the weekend in an attempt to console her and help to resolve the issues that are making her feel so low. Try to persuade her to call the Samaritans herself. Once she has started talking to them she may start feeling better.
I hope it all works out...
2006-11-17 04:38:38 · answer #3 · answered by Furball 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
uh...get to the airport and get on the very next flight to where she is! Or get in your car and start driving RIGHT NOW! If she is a close friend and means this much to you, you need to go. She obviously needs you. Call her neighbors or the police and tell them you need them to check on her until you get there. If you do nothing you are gonna end up blaming yourself if anything does happen, so do yourself a favor and make sure she is okay!
2006-11-17 04:51:23 · answer #4 · answered by Hydimyangel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey, someone who is really considering suicide wont waste time telling you about it. If you are worried then you can call her parents, police or whoever to check on her but those who are seriously intent on doing it will do it whatever. You could give up your life and babysit her 24/7 for months but if hse wants to die she'll do it soon as your backs turned. My guess is shes trying to get attention from you and its working isnt it ????
2006-11-17 04:45:26 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you really think that she is you can call the police in your area and tell them what her address is and they can go and check up on her because it's better to be safe than sorry right. It's good that you still care about her after the relationship ended. Sounds like your one of the good guys. Good luck to the both of you.
2006-11-17 04:58:55 · answer #6 · answered by heartyangel98 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What you doing on here ??? Take the 200 mile trip and check on her yourself !!! You could also contact her family or the local police station.
All the best
2006-11-17 04:41:06 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go to church to learn the value of life.
In the Beginning God created heavens and earth.
God gives you air to breathe and sunshine to enjoy.
God gives you water to drink and food to eat.
God gives you a wonderful body and sound mind, to live.
God loves you, and you are precious to Him.
Son of God died on the Cross to save us from condemnation.
Jesus’ love is boundless and everlasting.
We have the hope of Heaven through Jesus.
Life therefore has fantastic and glorious future!
(Digestion of above can even prevent depression and suicidal thoughts.)
2006-11-17 04:51:54 · answer #8 · answered by Moriahho 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if she wants to kill herself there isnt anything you can do she will find a way of trying to do it you should just hope that you or someone else finds her in time but she may be a bit pissed with you or the person that finds her for saving her life.
please dont think im being harsh bout this but if she wants to do this she will try she may sucseed but i hope that she dosent . just be there for her try to get to talk about how shes feeling and try not to judge her good luck
2006-11-18 09:21:08 · answer #9 · answered by weirdo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
911
2006-11-17 15:23:14 · answer #10 · answered by CROSS 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋