what do u do when someone u love is dating someone else but ur still friends nd u still love them? we had a bad break-up but earlier this week he said he may want to get back together now hes dating this chick....WTF? another question 4 girls y do guys love 2 play with our hearts???
2006-11-17 04:29:35 · 14 answers · asked by airforcebeauty06 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I would break off all communitcation but I see him twice a week for CAP and hes my advisior so I cant do that
2006-11-17 04:34:49 · update #1
Oh and I just found out they've been dating for 4 days and they r already saying they love each other and they have already kissed!
2006-11-18 13:22:23 · update #2
it seems to me as this bloke is playing with your heart and is taking advantage of you....he thinks that if it does not work out with this other women then he could have you back?....forget about him...move on and find a man that appreciates you and respects you
2006-11-17 04:33:28 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He MAY want to get back together? Don't play his games honey. You need to just be independent and let him do his thing ALONE. Being friends right after a relationship his hard and risky because of your feelings for each other. I would try to back off a little considering he is dating someone else ANYway!
Some guys don't realize that they are playing games with our hearts..Girls are so much more emotional then boys. Most guys (not all) all concerned with the physical aspect of a relationship first and girls analyze just about everything and it goes straight to our hearts. WE THINK TOO MUCH! And sadly, they don't think enough. But this is just some guys...there are good ones out there! Find another one and it will be much much better!!
2006-11-17 12:35:14 · answer #2 · answered by Roxy1316 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Remember, he was caught "flirting" with "another girl" by you. A guy will go as far as he can until he gets caught. Now he is playing with you and your feelings. He has your attention and he is playing with you. I know, I used to do it all the time. It is an ego boost. One that I now realize is a lie. What makes someone worthy is a good job, good personality, trusting and respectful. He doesn't seem to care about you and was busted. Stay strong, find someone better and do better things for yourself and he will be kicking himself. JMT.
2006-11-17 12:38:29 · answer #3 · answered by Jim M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all if you still love someone then you have to break off all communications with them. That's a good way to get over them. Ever heard of "out of sight, out of mind". Another way is to find you someone else to occupy your time then you won't think about him as much.
Guys only play with our hearts if we allow them too. I bet if he knew you were dating someone else he would probably get jealous and show his true feelings and stop playing games.
2006-11-17 12:39:02 · answer #4 · answered by Heaven26 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You will keep getting your heart broken until you develop more self esteem. You are much more valuable than to be someone who is avaialable to a guy who is not mature enough to carry on a lasting relationship. Dump this guy, break off all communication with him.
2006-11-17 12:32:41 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
in today's society guy are told by there friends to be a player.. that means your cool... but what ever... you should never talk to him again... delete him from your life and move on to someone that will treat you right... there is a guy out there that will treat you like a princess... dont pick the guy who is a jerk... it will be hard to overcome your emotion of love for this fool... but women are strong and mighty... even if he comes crawling back, don't take him back... he hurt you once and that is enough... i know this isn't what you want to here and i am sorry.. but keep your chin up.. life is to short to be miserable, and you deserve to be happy...
diamond
hope everything works out for you.
2006-11-17 12:39:52 · answer #6 · answered by diamondg4u2c 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh, and you're just standing around waiting for him to make up his mind??? Get on with your own life girl! Leave him to 'this chick'
2006-11-17 12:33:06 · answer #7 · answered by iyamacog 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That sucks best thing to do is to get a new guy yourself give him a taste of his own medicine
2006-11-17 12:33:09 · answer #8 · answered by Pink Girl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
girl i know how you feel, just leave him alone. there's others out there. guys do play with our hearts for a reason
2006-11-17 12:39:44 · answer #9 · answered by SweetRedz05 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you just move on, plenty of other loves in your life to be had
2006-11-17 12:39:13 · answer #10 · answered by rich2481 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋