lets say that my friends feelings were not changed by me going out with her sister. this is my main concern because i feel that if i didnt do this then me and my friends realtionship would have been stronger. i asked her the otha day and she said she loves me but as a friend. but im sure that she used to like me more - hence me worrying about her going off me due to the sister mistake i made. how can i make her realise those feelings she may have had before BUT i CANT tell her my feelings untill i know how she feels because of our riendship. i cannot simply ruin it becaue im worried i have made a mistake. if she has never truly loved me then i will leave us as friends but if she has loved me for even a second i want her to feel those feelings again.but how?? so is it my fault that she may stopped loving me for whatever reason and could i have prevented it?? i feel guilty and that i caould hav edone something
2006-11-17 04:28:08 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Chill...
Just ask her how she feels about you and her sister going out. See what she has to say...
2006-11-17 04:31:10 · answer #1 · answered by Angela 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes in this life we have to make choices. U really should choose whether she is more important for you as a friend or the person you need with your soul and body. It really doesn't matter whose it was then. but you will be really guilty if you make the wrong choice. You should understand that there is no way back after you make a choice, and if u r unsuccessful, u probably will lose her as a friend too. So think carefully.
But if she loves you too, I am sure could be a great couple
Good luck
2006-11-17 12:40:24 · answer #2 · answered by ALONE_GIRL 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have no idea how old you are but you are just kidding yourself if you think her feelings haven't changed. If she did love you as more than a friend she can't possibly tell you NOW. You went out with her sister!!!!!! If you actually have real feelings for this girl, tell her FIRST, if not then let it go and if possible just be good friends, but don't sit back and expect her to make the first move after what you did. By the way have you asked yourself WHY you went out with her sister?????? Have you asked the SISTER WHY SHE WENT OUT WITH YOU?????????????????????? Good luck buddy trying to straighten this out.
2006-11-17 12:39:27 · answer #3 · answered by Penny Mae 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds to me like you want to have your cake and eat it too! Pick a girl any girl and be faithful and loving to her. Maybe you should drop both and start fresh somewhere else...
2006-11-17 12:32:41 · answer #4 · answered by prairiegurrl 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your biggest mistake is going out with her sis she can never love you now without upsetting her sis forget her make pals with her and her sis you will definitely see another gal
2006-11-17 12:35:20 · answer #5 · answered by john n 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋