he says hes never cheated on me but should i belive him when he tell me that i don't know what to think!!!
2006-11-17 04:26:50 · 7 answers · asked by *LaTiNa_BoNiTa* 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Quite frankly, I'm a firm believer of Chris Rock's comment: "A man is only as faithful as his options." (and this goes for some women too).
However, it's probably better not to worry about things that are out of your control. You can't police him every second of the day. He could be honest and faithful or not.. either way.. what can you do about it?
If you've chosen a guy who seems to respect you in everyway both in public and private and one with whom you admire his character then respect your decision until he gives you reason to think otherwise.
Concentrate on yourself. Have confidence and project that. Make yourself happy and concentrate on your goals. You will then be his best option and you'll be happier in the process. Should you ever find out that he is cheating on you then it will be his loss and not yours.
2006-11-17 04:38:33 · answer #1 · answered by mosaic 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you've been with him for two years and you don't trust him yet....there are some problems with the relationship.
Think about why you think he's lying to you. Does he disappear sometimes? Is he ignoring you or not calling?
However, if you're accusing him of cheating just because you're feeling insecure about yourself...you might push him to be unfaithful.
2006-11-17 12:34:28 · answer #2 · answered by no_butches 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes i think that if yall been together that long then you should have trust. The only way you shouldn't trust him is if u had some type of suspecsion or evidnece. The best thing to do is talk to him about it if u are very that its bothering you.
2006-11-17 12:32:11 · answer #3 · answered by nishababe74 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hmmm... Well, this is a really difficult question to answer because WE DON'T FREAKIN KNOW HIM!!! What are people supposed to base their advice on if they don't know him, don't know anything about him? Why would you ask such a stupid question? If you gave some background info, MAYBE someone could formulate an opinion. But you offer nothing, just "hey, I have a boyfriend, should I trust him?" WTF? Go back and try asking this again...
2006-11-17 12:32:26 · answer #4 · answered by bodinibold 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should trust him if he haven't gave you reason not to
2006-11-17 12:33:22 · answer #5 · answered by Lil' Foot 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you have any reasons not to trust him?
2006-11-17 12:29:59 · answer #6 · answered by Svetlana G 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok
2006-11-17 12:30:57 · answer #7 · answered by ishea w 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋