2006-11-17 04:25:43 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
it's not bad because you are in love with this man..and we all have been there at some point or another..I know I have....I knew that he liked me and didnt want anything more but just sex..because I loved him I stooped so low..I gave soooo much of myself to him..did want ever he wanted in bed..and after I did not feel soo good about myself...I would often cry at nights wondering why he cant love me the way I loved him....and how can I get to love me and want me...I was so in love with this man..that I almost had a threesome because thats what he wanted..thank god I did not go through with it...eventually you will wake up..and you will not want to be used like that anymore..when the love wears off you will see everything more clearly..I know that it is hard but take it from me..it is not worth it..but its something that you will have to come to terms with..
I wish you the best of luck..because I have been there..and it is not a nice feeling..after I left that guy or after we came to the conculsion that we should just be friends without having sex..I spent a year by myself..trying to love myself and start feeling good about myself again/..so in time you too will realize it...
2006-11-17 04:45:31 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He seems like he is interested in the sex only. How can you be in love with him when it appears sex is the common binding item in your relationship. Stop the sex. Develop a relationship. If he stops coming around after sex has stopped, you know the relationship was based on the wrong thing. Improve your self esteem and hold yourself in higher regard.
2006-11-17 04:29:23 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
If he broke up with you, then NOOOOO...please don't let him use you for sex. I had someone do that to me and it made the situation so much more worse and harder to deal with. He is using the fact that you still love him against you. HE is a JERK!Even though it may feel good for you to have sex with him cuz you want him back and you love him, hold yourself back pleeassse! I am so sure you are better than that!!!! Find someone else who wants you for more than sex. Trust me it will be worth it!
2006-11-17 04:29:56 · answer #3 · answered by Roxy1316 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
no longer something incorrect with ******* the doorstep sister! She's no longer blood so that's great. I also have a sister I stay with maximum the time that's my blood and we would desire to start only doing one yet another little sexual favors and my step sister lives at my dads living house and she or he's 20 yet i'm basically 15. What am i able to do?
2016-10-04 01:55:59 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why do you want to use him like that? Poor guy isn't a piece of meat you know? It is no different than when a guy does the wham bam thank you ma'am!
2006-11-17 04:37:13 · answer #5 · answered by Bob A 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i am sorta in the same situation and i do feel used everytime but i keep doin it to myself cause i let him come over i think we stop allowing ourselves to be used
2006-11-17 04:29:30 · answer #6 · answered by simply me 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
umm well yea cause then hes just going to know that he can run back to you whenever he wants it and thats not good i know you love him but still you got to really open yours eyes and see cause at the end your just hurting yourself
2006-11-17 04:29:40 · answer #7 · answered by *LaTiNa_BoNiTa* 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Stop being used
2006-11-17 04:27:22 · answer #8 · answered by vio_prince 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
yep - he is using you. how do you think you will feel about it later in life when you look back. preserve yourself. get a book on self esteem.
2006-11-17 04:29:27 · answer #9 · answered by aepheather 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
WELL I KNOW HOW U FEEL CUZ THATS WHAT HAPPENED TO ME HES MY BEST FRIEND AND I THINK HES CHANGED EVER SINCE THEN AND I LOVE HIM ALOT TO BUT THATS ALL WE DO AND YEAH KNOW THAT I THOUGHT ABOUT IT I THINK IT HAS CHANGED OUR RELATIONSHIP TOGERTHER WE USE TO BE REALLY CLOSE BUT THEN THAT HAPPENED AND HE KINDA ACTS WEIRD NOW
2006-11-17 04:32:28 · answer #10 · answered by VERONICA L 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋