well im kind of confused about this because im a christian, im still a virgen. my question is should i loose it? ( i mean h ve you know what)
2006-11-17 04:06:53 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Religion & Spirituality
It's the most special gift you can give someone.
Not something to be given away lightly.
Make sure the recipient is worthy!
2006-11-17 04:11:25 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The question is: is this the right time, and the right person? Don't let peer or social pressure influence you - you must think carefully and make your own decision. Think of possible unpleasant consequences - unwanted pregnancy, the risk of disease, the possibility of being exploited by the wrong person. If you are really lucky, you have found someone who genuinely cares for you, and will respect and appreciate you - I hope so.
2006-11-17 12:15:56 · answer #2 · answered by mad 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I am not a Christian, but if you are then you should stick to your beliefs. Christians who do not do what it is that the Bible commands them to do, make non-Christians (like myself) turn away from the religion entirely. I can quote the Bible to a lot of Christians better than they can quote it to me. How am I to respect someone who does not know, or practice the very tenants of the faith they are telling me I will be lost without? Obey your own law: "For this reason a man shall leave his father and mother and be united to his wife, and they shall become one flesh."
2006-11-17 12:11:42 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
That's a really difficult question to ask online. Aside from the fact that I know you're a Christian, I don't know anything else about you... I'd love to say that you'll know when it's the right time, but that's not always true. Do what you feel in your heart, not your pants. :)
2006-11-17 12:09:59 · answer #4 · answered by the_only_slushman 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO NO NO! Respect yourself!! Just having sex changes you and usually not in a good way. Think about how wonderful it will be when you share this with the one person you will spend the rest of your life with, and can say with pride you saved yourself for them!! You can't get your virginity back ever!!
2006-11-17 12:11:41 · answer #5 · answered by mommy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you serious? Fornication is wrong in the eyes of God- He made that for marriage between a man and woman. You should know this if you are a christian. Why even ask that? If you are struggling I understand- but by all means, self control! I know it is hard, but with Jesus all things are possible. Pray for his strength and wisdom! I know we all fail- and fall into sin- and we are forgiven but do not have the mindset of "oh God will forgive me"
That is not a good place to be- Believe me!
2006-11-17 12:09:27 · answer #6 · answered by Mandolyn Monkey Munch 6 · 1⤊ 2⤋
If your a Christian, and you want to follow Gods word, than the answer is no, save it till you get married.
2006-11-17 12:09:37 · answer #7 · answered by sweetie_baby 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't use religion as an excuse. Morality and Christianity are not entwined. The world doesn't need another kid having a kid!
2006-11-17 12:11:53 · answer #8 · answered by Duncarin 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are a Christian then you know the answer to this question. You should not experiment with per martial sex.
2006-11-17 12:09:49 · answer #9 · answered by Sunspot Baby 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should do it when your head says that it is ok. God did not create marriage, man and religion did. God did not say you needed to be virgin when you were married. Man and religion did. Do what you feel is right not what anyone, especially some peer group, says to do.
2006-11-17 12:11:05 · answer #10 · answered by bocasbeachbum 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋