For Thankgiving we might be going to my Aunt's house.I'm happy but my cousin's hate me and make fun of me.My problem is that my b-day is 12-01 and my aunt gives me her present then and so my cousin's try to make me have a miserable time.Wat should I do to keep me busy and to make me have fun and wat should i do to try to make them like me?
2006-11-17 03:46:12 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
thats family for you, confront your cousins and try to get to the bottom of it and if you can't confront them just ignore them and try to enjoy your holiday/ b-day it isn't worth being unhappy
2006-11-17 03:55:18 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh my sisters hate me too there has to be a deeper reason to it my sisters were jealous of me because my mom was always there for me and worrying about me but they didn't think of all the times my mom cried for/over them they just saw her loving me more.
tell your cousins that you don't like the way they make you feel and ask them why they are so mean to you. you have to confront the problem. I know better then anyone about family issues I have 7 sisters and two brothers and don't talk or have dinners anything with them, My two older sisters are having thanksgiving dinner 250 miles away and they invited my 18 year old sister down and she live 15 min away from me and no one has even called me. that's not even the best,
My younger sister got preg. at 15 and my older sister threw her this big baby shower in my house had me decorate and spent over $700 dollars on gifts for her baby I had a son 1 1/2 before and I didn't even get a card or a phone call to say congrats then I had another baby about 1 1/2 ago and again nothing.
so you have to find out why they are the way they are, or talk to your aunt and see whats up well good luck hun hope it all works out for the best and Happy Thanksgiving
2006-11-17 04:02:20 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-04 01:52:50 · answer #3 · answered by Erika 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try this - talk to your aunt ahead of time, explain the situation to her and suggest that you would prefer your birthday celebrating be done when the cousins aren't there. I suspect you two can arrange it for before or after they arrive. That way everyone can enjoy thanksgiving and you and your aunt can do a little extra thing of your own just for your birthday.
2006-11-17 03:52:48 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know, you really shouldn't let them make fun of you. Stand up and confront them. If they don't like you, then that's their problem, really. You didn't do anything wrong. Don't just stand there and accept their insults or whatever it is they do to give you a miserable time. For all you know, they might be jealous of you.Try to ignore them. Let them know in that way that their antics wont work anymore. And you really wouldn't go down to their level. Hang in there girl!
2006-11-17 03:54:04 · answer #5 · answered by Mint 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't make people like you and the more you try, the more pathetic it seems to them. Hang out with the adults, get thru the day as best as you can, but stay with parents or others and avoid the kids who make you feel bad.
2006-11-17 03:54:39 · answer #6 · answered by chris 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I suffer from the same problem with my cousins. The Way I got over there harassment was I gave them twice as much attitude as they gave me and suddenly they started being nice.
2006-11-24 11:26:53 · answer #7 · answered by lyssa1913 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You cannot make someone like you. Be yourself and thats all you can do. Happy Birthday on 12/01.
2006-11-17 03:50:53 · answer #8 · answered by Premo Mom 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
very simple bring alone an ipod or psp with you, so you will something to do, try sticking to your parents and maybe show them some love. to try and make them like you one you have to show them that whatever they do does not bother you, tell them to grow up, talk to them and be strong maybe they have changed since the last time you visited...good luck
2006-11-17 04:02:04 · answer #9 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do not let someone else's actions determine how you feel. You are better than that. If you are happy with you who cares if other's are not.
2006-11-17 04:12:42 · answer #10 · answered by kobisky 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋