i have this friend thats constantly ditchin out on me, like we were supposed to move out together me and her and another girl, and she totaly ditched and said we dont think ur financially ready to move out. which i was...then the other day we made plans and shes like uhhh im with my sister going shopping, she just always does that and it pisses me off what should i do?
2006-11-17 03:23:52 · 24 answers · asked by krista22here 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
this girl is obviously a back stabber and you need to eliminate her as one of your friends. find someone else you could move in with besides nobody knows better than you how your doing financially
2006-11-17 05:18:06 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Confront her! Obviously she's not a true friend if she's doing this. Or maybe she just doesn't know that she's doing it. Either way, you have to say something or it will never be resolved. Tell her what she's doing and how it makes you feel. If she's a true friend she will fix the problem. If she doesn't care, then your better off without her anyway.
2006-11-17 03:34:00 · answer #2 · answered by KellyBelle 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have an acquaintance like that and I found she wasn't a friend at all. It hurts because you do put your trust in a person and they let you down. I think in a lot of ways it is easier to move in with strangers than friends because you don't expect strangers to be nice or anything but that they do pay their own way. I would honestly fade that person out of my life and get on with my life.
2006-11-17 03:32:35 · answer #3 · answered by Petra 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Start making plans without her and don't continue to make plans with her. If she asks you why let her know its because she always ditches you. She will either stop her behavior or continue, but either way you will be better off because you won't be waiting around for her or getting your feelings hurt when she doesn't follow thru.
2006-11-17 03:31:27 · answer #4 · answered by Elvira 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
she doesnt sound like much of a friend. You should stop making plans with her and start hanging out with someone who wants to spend time with you. When she comes around wanting to know why you stoped calling be honest i decided my time was better spent with someone who wanted to do things with me than sitting around waiting for you to be avaible. She'll get the picture.
2006-11-17 03:32:03 · answer #5 · answered by starrmerlan 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When she do call you to do something, act like you are busy even if you are not.Find someone else to hang with if need be. Just give her a little taste of what she gave you and she will be wondering why.
2006-11-17 03:34:47 · answer #6 · answered by RoxieC 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
make plains with her one day and then diche her hell take her to the mall in your car and leave her a** make her wish she would have never done it to you. or just quiet hanging out with her and hang out with some one else and then when she wants to hang out with you be like im sorry me and such and such are hanging out. ( do it for like a week or two and shell stop doin it) but shell probley only come back when she has noone else to hang out with
2006-11-17 03:33:36 · answer #7 · answered by slick_chik316 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's not really your friend....bottom line.....stop following up behind a person who doesn't seem to have the courtesy to make time for you and isn't woman enough to tell you that she doesn't want to be bothered.
2006-11-17 03:29:48 · answer #8 · answered by ? 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell her how you feel and if she keeps on doing this then you need to find a new friend.
2006-11-17 03:28:55 · answer #9 · answered by reeni 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you should talk to her and see why she is ditching you. and then maybe you two can work something out. like a compromise or something. i hope that this helps you with your problem.
2006-11-17 03:30:00 · answer #10 · answered by girlie 801 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋