How come so many of our white women are sexually distorted?

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How come so many of our white women are sexually distorted?
I mean, it's not good for ANYBODY to misuse sex. And I feel for all people. But I was almost completely ruined by internet porn. And what I begin to realize is that there are literally THOUSANDS of women (mostly white) that show and do ANYTHING with ANYBODY. No inhibitions whatsoever. Just look in the magazine section of any store, and there they are, luring us in on covers of magazines, spread out in centerfolds. Then in the adult stores it looks like our women are POSSESSED for sex! With men, women, ANIMALS, objects......The porn movies and internet porn nearly tore my family apart. It's difficult for me to respect woman anymore. I seem to see all women as skanks now. Where is it all going?

As an aheist, where do we draw the line?

Claire

maybe it would be better for all of us in the end if there wasn't this huge supply of it.

Uncle J
I HAVE been ruined to a degree by that stuff. And I have talked to many others that have been as well. Everyone I have talked to says it's bad for our family and children.

Puupy

I know I didn't HAVE to involve myself. But it's just TOO MUCH inticement EVERYWHERE you look! ...............where do YOU get the strength to not look at skcantily clad women?

JSJM

Oh thank! There's NO refuge from this crap!

SotiCoto

I care because I care about people, family, and children!

I am not racist, I love all people based on their character!

It's illogical to think that because other races do it, homos do it, etc ....therefore it must be ok!

You used to have to pay for tthat crap.............not I have to PAY TO KEEP THAT CRAP OUT OF MY HOUSE (over the internet)!!! That's a damn shame!!

DIAMOND

It's bad for me AND women. I agree. But can only ASK one question at a time.

JP

It just doesn't harm MY family.

The MEN and WOMEN are distorted.

Men hold the greater responsibility to lead society. Men historically are the ones the that are primarily responsible for building up or taring down a society. We have that greater fault in this. But both end up being victimizing, and victimizing themselves and others.

lookn2

There IS something to be said for modesty.

Thanks relive
I used to be involved with a lot of different women And I used to be into that porn stuff. Now I'm starting to see people differently. I don't know what it is................but, I'm ASHAMED of my passed. .........the problem IS I can't go back to all the people and families that I have hurt....maybe even ruined as well...

WT
Because SO MANY of them are involved. ALL people look to their own first. I still care for others *** well.

Thanks RC

I thinks it is ruining MANY MANY people. Not just the porn, but the rampant sexuallity in general as well. Now that I am recovering I have seen young girls and boys, (13 and 14 years old) ACTIVELY in sexual relationships! What goes on at some of the parties, etc. that I used to do, you can't imagine.

Shawn

I blame ALL people involved. You SALUTE the promiscuious society. I'm starting to realize it's ruining us from the inside out.

I don't think you can see it because you youself are RUINED! Perhaps you're still ....................one of them.

Shawn,
You don't seem to understand. I WAS WRONG. I accept full responsibility for MY actions. It's just that I have seen and done things that I know have harmed many people.

This society is getting out of control because of this subject and many other ills. I'm starting to realize that what a society allows as norms WILL AFFECT EVERYONE eventually.

It's not by chance that people are now in great numbers even going to other countries and BUYING 9 and 10 year old girls and boys!!

These industries feed the minds of these people! And these are not some homeless people doing this. These are doctors, lawyers, professionals, law makers, etc.

The ease at which I could get with young women in this country (I'm not talking children) is now disturbing to me.
Believe me it's difficult to find a decent wholesome lady. I'm only in my 20's. But, women are all over you before you know it these days. I'd like a LADY that's mine and ONLY mine! unheard of.

Answer 1

Some suffer low self-esteem and think this makes them feel better. But at the end of the day they wouldnt do it if men didnt buy it etc. Supply and demand I'm thinking!

Answer 2

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Answer 3

"where do we draw the line?" Well you CROSSED the line by letting porn nearly ruin your family...now you want to blame (white) women!? Com'on now you must take some responisbilty for your actions!

Honestly, we happen to live in a very sexually permiscous era. However sex has ALWAYS sold and always will. Its not just white women...women AND men of all ages, races, creeds, and social status' take part in it. Ppl pick their poison, here in the US the main stream tends to like pretty white girls, but there are some who like asians, latins or whatever...porn is porn thus nothing new under the sun. Its not going anywhere BUT its also not chasing you down forcing you to watch it. If its something that doesnt interest you...dont watch it. Maybe im crazy...but that SEEMS like a pretty simply concept to me...

PS not all women are skanks...you have a very distorted view of things if you cant see all the strong beatuiful talented intelligent hard working women around you. Perhaps you should get off the net and interact w ppl you can see face to face. Geez...

Answer 4

There are probably "harmless" pictures and videos of devoted nuns in full habit and wimples praying to God and singing hymns if you want to seek that out.
The sex industry sells sex and you really don't need to go sniffing around there if it upsets you, I think quite a lot of guys enjoy porn and quite a few women too.
For some of the girls it is a way to make some good money, often better than spending weeks as a burger flipper when you can earn more in just a few hours.
Just be good yourself, you know how to do that don't you? or buy some chain mail underpants and wear them at all times well pad-locked.

Answer 5

As choice. If they want to do that, and they harm no one else by force, let them. If it harms your family to look at it, then don't look at it.

In essence: Show some self restraint and get on with your life. There's better things to worry about than what some woman wants to do.

I also find it interesting you call these women twisted or distorted, but what about all the guy models who do all the same things, just with a different set of organs? Why is the woman a victim but the guy is lucky?

Answer 6

I think it all starts with a lot of the women being abused sexually at an early age which totally messes up her head and how she sees herself....she doesn't think she's worth much more than that lifestyle....we as a whole need to see to it that stiffer laws are made and ENFORCED with child molesters and abusers....and also protest against the porn sites...let them know that you are not for it. and if enough people would come forward about how it has ruined their lives..maybe they will listen...I have heard so many men say that porn has ruined their lives, time to take a stand...

Answer 7

there is not any controversy-- style magazine and the linked Press went out to fire up a controversy and it nevertheless hasn't got here approximately! Why would there be controversy while Black men and white women human beings (and visa versa) have been with one yet another for years? i assume once you place a image on a mag for white teen females, they're meant to be so impressionable that they initiate off working after Black men? i will say that it would have been surprising to ascertain the 1st Black guy on the disguise of style in a healthful, with or without the white lady.

Answer 8

"It's difficult for me to respect woman anymore. I seem to see all women as skanks now."

I believe this is a direct result of the loss of the Feminine Divine. And we can thank patriarchal monotheism for it, for it has placed women at a lower level and objectified them whether they be white, black, or any ethnic origin in-between.

If you look at some of the earliest ancient civilizations, you will find very little reference to a god figure. All paintings and statues glorified the goddess. But then something catastrophic happened. Archaeologists surmise that the world went through a massive climate change (should we all be taking a lesson from this?!) which resulted in hunter/gatherer societies having to become primarily hunter societies in order to survive. This resulted to two things taking place.

Where once people viewed the goddess, the feminine, as the very symbol of abundance - something to be revered and loved - now the feminine was seen as something to be feared because the abundance associated with the goddess was torn away from them. This resulted in...

The male having to take the lead role, the hunter role, so that the family and greater society could survive. Enter patriarchal monotheism and the ghettoizing of the feminine.

I think our challenge as a society, in fact the challenge of the entire globe is to try and restore balance. Both the feminine and the masculine are vitally important for the procreation of our species. Both are equal and necessary for our continued survival. Honoring both "equally" would be a giant leap forward for the genders and the world itself.

Continued monotheism doesn't serve anyone. Male or female. The female continues to suffer in a far lesser role where there is no significant or meaningful place set at the table for her, and men continue to have to live in a kind of love/hate relationship with women where they must recognize their need for the feminine but at the same time, suffer the fear of having the abundance inherent in the feminine taken away from them.

Your description of your personal reaction to porn amply demonstrates this concept. On one hand you were seduced by it - by what looked like accessible female abundance - yet in the same breath, you show your underlying fear by saying, "But I was almost completely ruined by internet porn." What you are reacting to is the negative side of human sexuality - the side which is demonized by the church. This is just as unhealthy for you, and society at large, as it is for the women who find themselves in a position where this is their only means of survival. Both suffer greatly by this continued construct perpetrated by the patriarchal monotheist church.

It is my humble opinion that we need to move away from the patriarchal monotheistic construct and move towards greater balance between the genders. This movement can either be social only, or religious and spiritual in nature guided by a new, modern recognition of the Feminine Divine. Either way, it will most certainly be a far healthier construct for all. There will no longer be any need for the underlying fear of gender due to patriarchal monotheism. Instead, it will open the door to real, fundamental understanding of each through an honoring of both.

That is my personal Utopia. I hope, with every fiber of my being, that we will recognize and begin the work of moving towards this much healthier construct.

Answer 9

Isnt that a double standard? I mean, arent there MEN in some of these videos, with these women? Dont we have a "Playgirl" magazine, half naked pictures a male models and actors in magaines too? Give credit where credit is due.

Also, women are objectified because of MEN> Men buy it, they watch it, they crave it, they love it. All they are doing is making a quick buck ny fulfilling a need, not a big deal.

You need to stop lumping ALL women into a category, because your choices in life caused you problems, Not all women are skanks, and you know that.

Answer 10

Why do you care?

Its their business what they want to do with their bodies. If your family was nearly torn apart by it then its your family's own fault for indulging in it.
You'll find, oh racist one, that black women do it too... as do women of other ethnicities. There are things for all sexual tastes online. Homosexual males do it quite a bit too...

But honestly, its only your business if you choose to make it so... and since you've chosen to have anything to do with it then you've got nobody to complain to but yourself. Nobody is forcing the porn on you...