2006-11-17 02:10:48 · 26 answers · asked by provenmazz 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Only if you want to be his buddy/friend with benefits. If you want long term, wait 'til he's screwed some other girl up getting over his ex before pursuing it.
2006-11-17 02:16:53 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No it might not be that safe, because when I was still stuck on my old boyfriend I could never get him off my mind and when I saw him we would occasionally have some bangin a$$ sex, so it might be the same with the guy you are talking to now
2006-11-17 02:18:47 · answer #2 · answered by BeAuTY iS mY NaME 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No don't do it....you will only set yourself up for alot of hurt if you decide you want a relationship with him....I've been there and married that life lesson...in heated disagreements he would mention his old love ...why because he was still in love with her...she was a beautiful Spanish girl who only used him and aborted his child and get this he found out that she quit him and aborted his child with a single phone call the ripped him apart! I'm American and lots of times he would refer to me with Spanish words he learned from her....and he's American ...girl he is still in love with her till this day ...we broke up divorce and get this she never loved him back .....let your boe get rid of his baggage first or he'll only use you as a heart patch, but his mind will be on the other side of town so to speak....with his ex.....don't make the mistake i made guard your heart!
2006-11-17 02:26:26 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Safe, probably; smart, no. If he still has feelings for his ex he can't develop a decent relationship with you. He would end up either using you as a distraction/substitute or in his mind pretend that you are her. Either way sucks. I wouldn't set myself up for that and I don't think that anyone else should either. In the end you both will end up getting hurt.
2006-11-17 02:20:29 · answer #4 · answered by BetteBoop 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Safe to go out? Yes. Safe to marry? No.
2006-11-17 02:16:29 · answer #5 · answered by wuxxler 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No it's not ok to date someone who is still in love with their girlfriend, because you would be the second thing on their mind. And if he still has feelings for her you screwed.
2006-11-17 02:30:24 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-29 05:33:35 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you insane?! Don't do that unless you really know he's not like other guys, otherwise if he is, he'll cheat on you quick. But nobody's totally over their ex's. You got yourself in a tough situation. E-mail me with your situation and I'll get back to you.
2006-11-17 02:19:08 · answer #8 · answered by Adrian 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not likely as you will be a rebound relationship. He will not be able or ready to put 100% of himself into you and your relationship. Be very careful if you decide to do so.
2006-11-17 02:17:57 · answer #9 · answered by Oracle 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i wouldn't because i would think that he could not give me his all because some of it was still with the ex. and if he just broken up with the ex i definitely wouldn't do it cause you might end up being a rebound
2006-11-17 02:21:14 · answer #10 · answered by jumiboo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋