ALL THE TIME THERE FIGHTING AND IM NOT BLOWING THIS OVER OR ANYTHING THEY HAVE FOUGHT EVERY DAY FOR 2 YEARS!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! ..... EVEN CRISTMAS,VACATION,FOURTH OF JULY, THANKSGIVING. THEY DONT EVEN SLEEP IN THE SAME ROOM AND MORE MY DAD SLEEPS ON THE COUCH AND MY MOM IN THE BED. EVERY NIGHT WHILE IM A SLEEP IM WAKING UP BY EITHER A SLAMMING DOOR OR **** YOU BILL!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! MY MOM SAYES SHES NOT GONNA GET A DIVORCE BECAUSE SHE DOESENT WANT TO SELL THE HOUSE AND MOVE..... I THINK THAT IS THE STUPIDEST REASON EVER!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! ITS TEARING ME AND THEM APART!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! ALL OUR DOORS ARE BROKEN INT HE HOUSE FROM MY MOM SLAMING THEM MY ROOM DOOR HAS A HUGE HOLE IN IT FROM WHERE MY MOM KICKED IT......... I JUST DONNO WHAT TO DO DO U AGREE WITH ME THEY SHOULD GET A DIVORCE OR WHAT???
2006-11-17 02:02:00 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
THEVE ALSO GONE TO MARRIAGE COUNSOLING BUT THEY FOUGHT OVER WHO WOULD DRIVE THE CAR THERE SO THEY ONLY WENT ONCE
2006-11-17 02:02:44 · update #1
I feel so bad for you but beleive it or not you are not alone. I swear on the bible that my whole childhood was with my parents refusing to skip a day of fighting... Morning noon night supper time, Bdays etc... It really hurts and it can screw up your life big time if you dont stay strong and learn to listen with a deaf ear. It is hard to do but you must. Put a walkman on or stay busy but please dont let this chip away at your dreams or your future. It is not fair but that is what your life is at the moment and try to stay strong and beleive me you will have peace soon if you keep grounded. Try to learn from there fighting and make yourself a personnal promise to never become that ugly or that bitter. It will be hard because with a life like that How can you not be left bitter? Dont let all of this affect your core, your soul...Be good to yourself and know that it will pass and you will be a bigger person in the end because you will not break eventhough life is throwing a major curve ball. Stay strong be good be nice be safe
2006-11-17 03:06:01 · answer #1 · answered by Tanya F 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm very sorry to hear about the situation that you are in now. I was in a similar place when I was younger, the difference was that neither one was talking to each other. When my mom came in the room, my dad would leave, and vice versa. If a phone call was for my mom and my dad answered it, he'd either say call back or tell me or my brothers to give my mom the phone. the tension was so thick you could cut it with a knife.
I'm not sure how old you are, but you need to stay strong and surround yourself with a strong support group. Do each of your parents have someone that they could talk to about what's happening? Someone they can confide in and give them good advice? One of your aunts or uncles? Grandmother or grandfather? What about a family friend? Anyone that could possibly help ease the tension in the house.
Have you talked to each of them about how this affects you directly? Do they know how you feel? Good luck.
2006-11-17 02:17:01 · answer #2 · answered by tipper 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry you are having to live like this. Have you talked to them to let them know that they are making your life miserable??? If they refuse to get a divorce then if I were you I would do ANYTHING to stay away from the house. School sports, clubs, band, cheerleading, ANYTHING!! They have to see what they are doing... wasting their lives being miserable!!! Just remember that you will one day move out and take it as a lesson of how NOT TO ACT when you get married...
2006-11-17 02:12:25 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah,they should get a divorce.My parents got divorced when I was 7,I'm 16 now.I have to admit that it was hard at first cause my sister had to move with my dad and I with my mum.I couldn't see my sister,my dad and my grandparents who raised me as often as I did before.I cried a lot but in the end I managed to get over it.
2006-11-17 04:16:12 · answer #4 · answered by black_cat 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i know exactly what you are going through, i grew up with parents the same way. they are currently dovorced and living seperate lives. although i was happy when they divorced, i cant say it didnt hurt a little. have you tried to talk to both of them together and tell them what their fighting is doing to you emotionaly? if nothing else, at least they will realize that you dont need to be put in the middle of their fights. just remember that their fights are with eachother, not you, they both love you no matter what. just try talking to them and telling them how u feel.
2006-11-17 02:18:10 · answer #5 · answered by Matt E 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I pray sincerely our Lord Jesus who is the saviour shall fill your parents with his wisdom and peace. The devilish actions and fightings will end right now with precious touch of our Lord. God bless your family members.
2006-11-17 02:21:22 · answer #6 · answered by srinivas 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dnt think yr parent gonna listen to any of the advise. try to write a letter or print all this let them read, tell them what is yr feelings toward this problem... i think u have to shout to them to make them listen.
2006-11-17 02:49:59 · answer #7 · answered by ironlady42 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think your parents need mental help. Try getting them on Dr. Phil. They can argue who gets the plane tickets.... ^_^
2006-11-17 02:09:01 · answer #8 · answered by He See My Tears, He Saw Me Cry 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
yes they should get a divorce.
2006-11-17 02:18:44 · answer #9 · answered by jumiboo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋