My Best friend's sister and her cousin who is also a girl are having an affair. Now...my best friend tried telling his sister it was wrong and since I know his sis and am friends with her I have also told her the same. But she says since they are both girls...there is no harm in them having sex with each other as there are no side effects physically because of that. And she says it makes them both happy and they love being with each other. I mean does she have a point? Are the rules different here because they are both girls? Should I just mind my own business and keep quiet about all this?
2006-11-17 01:43:18 · 20 answers · asked by Eraser 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
cousins having arelationship is not incestual, already wrote u this in the last question, they can even get married..
leave them to it, they are in the process of growing up.
i know of lots of friends that had their first experiences with each other, also same sex, doesn't mean to say that the< will be gay or lesbian, but even if they are the main thing is is that they are happy..
:)
2006-11-17 01:52:11 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Having relations with a family member, no matter the gender is incest. Your treading on thin ice right now...you don't stand to gain anything by blowing the whistle. Give your bud support when he needs it, but don't go trying to change anything because it can end VERY badly for you. Your best friends sister is making excuses to try to make it sound better....she'll be dealing with those demons later on.
2006-11-17 02:08:31 · answer #2 · answered by Miloree 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes it's incest and morally wrong! However it's not something for you to judge, let God take care of that!
So in the mean time get all the evidence you can on video tape, send it to me and I'll make sure he gets it!
2006-11-17 01:57:05 · answer #3 · answered by stonedpigeon1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well in my opinion,it's wrong..But l don't condone homosexuality either..Yes they are related and l guess technically this would be considered incest.. Pretty much it's just a bad situation all the way around..What ever happened to morals??
2006-11-17 01:54:04 · answer #4 · answered by john316tdh 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dont think cousins is illeagal, but i would personallly go there, its a little close to home, but to be fair, there isnt a chance of them breeding, which is always a concern with inter family relationships, as the genepool is too small and can result in birth defects and downs syndom ect.
id just keep out personally.
2006-11-17 01:52:02 · answer #5 · answered by judith c 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
By definition, this is considered incest. Obviously this is not the same as a father/ daughter, or mother/ son, but it is incest. my guess is that you are not going to change their mind about it as long as they are still "having fun with each other".
2006-11-17 01:50:55 · answer #6 · answered by The Colonel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the incest rules/laws are to prevent inbreeding and as she says that is not a problem --- so dont worry about it as long as they are both old enough and they enjoy each other
2006-11-17 01:50:07 · answer #7 · answered by Waterdragon 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first off stay out of it. Its the smartest thing you can do.
Secondly you are correct. The rules are no different
2006-11-17 01:54:01 · answer #8 · answered by Mike 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you mean legally or morally? The answer may be different, depending.
2006-11-17 01:52:01 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Video tape it, but yeah, mind your own business.
2006-11-17 01:48:57 · answer #10 · answered by TheOneVersion3.0 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋