my boyfriend wants me to move in with him but i am 17 and still in school and he is 19 and working what do i do about this. I want to live with him yes but not yet i want to finish school first. I told him maybe when i am 18 and out of school. but he doesn't want that he wants it now. what do i do
2006-11-17 01:34:30 · 14 answers · asked by Christina loves Pablo 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Tell him to grow up. If he's not willing wait for you... that doesn't bode well for the long term.
2006-11-17 01:41:32 · answer #1 · answered by Sam I AM 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Finish school. Your boy friend just wants what he wants when he wants it. If you allow him to push you into this situation then he will rule you for the rest of your life or for how ever long you stay together. If he can't wait, then he doesn't care that much for you anyway. Think about it, how many decisions will you be able to make if you have a man who has to have his way all the time. And the way he seems in this instance would indicate he has to be the one to be the boss. A real relationship that is lasting, hinges on the people involved being able to communicate with one another. He doesn't seem to be the type of person who will communicate. Take your time, think it over. Do you want to be bossed around from now on? Your future life depends on what you decide now.
2006-11-17 01:49:57 · answer #2 · answered by john h 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stay in school and take your time in making decisions. There's no need to rush things if it is true love then it can wait until you finish what ever education that you want to get. If you rush things and move in together to soon or if you don't finish school you will regret it and that will possion your relationship. But it sounds like you already know this so don't be pushed into anything that you don't want right now. Best of luck and take care.
2006-11-17 02:29:08 · answer #3 · answered by bigjg 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-25 00:23:53 · answer #4 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't runaway and get married it won't last unless you are mature enough to be able to support yourselves .Wait till you finish school and get a good job before you do something stupid like get married . I got married at 17 and it didn't work out and we were so in love . Good luck and i hope you take my advice.
2006-11-17 01:41:54 · answer #5 · answered by IT'S JUST ME ! 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You should stay home and finish school. If your bf loves, respects, and wants to be with you then he will respect and understand your decision. He should want what's best for you not what he wants for himself. If he doesn't, then he obviously has a very selfish side to him that you need to take into consideration.
2006-11-17 01:58:38 · answer #6 · answered by Oracle 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Finish school
2006-11-17 01:41:02 · answer #7 · answered by brown_sugah064 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
finish school first, you'll regret it if you don't. you only got a year to go then move out I wouldn't I'd go to college far away and party theres so much out there . I know you love him but things will change i guaranty it
2006-11-17 01:44:33 · answer #8 · answered by Amy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him that people in h3ll want ice water, too. Don't let him pressure you into moving in with him now. If he loves you, he'll respect the fact that you want wait.
2006-11-17 01:41:23 · answer #9 · answered by Tish 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
don't even think of leaving school 4 anyone becuz he may leave u after a while but school u will need it 4 ever
2006-11-17 01:53:26 · answer #10 · answered by simply_me 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋