why women like loosers?

Question

why women prefer loosers? usually men withouth a job and lots issues?

Answer 1

I am a girl but I still wonder that often. I am guessing it is because they live in the fantacy that they can change the man for the better...just a thought though.

Answer 2

Not all women like looser. Most women like a guy that will be nice to them and has a job. If they have issues than it is a good thing to talk about them. I don't think that all women pick bad guys.

Answer 3

First, What do you consider a loser? Second, I don't believe women just go out and say today I'm going to find me loser to start dating. It's something that happen over a course of time and when it happen the woman believe deep down inside that there is hope for this man that she cares about. Which cause her to start helping him as much as possible because she don't want to see her man this way. I believe everyone want something out of a relationship, sometimes people just can't produce want the other person want or need.

Answer 4

Of course not. The men with no job and lots of issues are the ones working the hardest to find women to take care of them. These are the men who are out there working hard to flatter women into going out with them. They seem like decent guy when women meet them. But most women usually don't find out the truth about what losers these guys really are until its too late and they are already involved with the losers. Most guys aren't going to let you know what losers they are from the beginning. Think about it: what guy is going to approach a girl by saying "I have no job and lots of issues; go out with me"?

Answer 5

Because women are born "caregivers", so alot of times they see these types of men as men they can mend back to health and change. Sometimes women have low self esteem and self worth and don't figure they deserve or could get any better than this, and are afraid to be with a guy with sucess and self confidence because they aren't good enough for those types of men. I myself have been with a couple of these "losers" as u call them, and u can't help them, they just end up bringing u down to their level, but we only learn from our own mistakes unfortunately.

Answer 6

I've often wondered the same thing. My sister separated from her husband just to move in with a man who has been in jail and in and out of rehab. He has no license. He has a daughter whom he has custody of but she only comes to stay with him on weekends, she lives with Grandma during the week. It seems each man she finds is more of a loser than the previous one. What I don't understand is she is attractive, has a great job, fun to be with.... so why can't she date someone who is decent? I guess it's low self esteem. She must not feel she is worth anything more than the first guy that comes along.

Answer 7

Hi..I don't think it is so much they like losers as it is they like a challenge. As stupid as it sounds..alot of times women take on charity cases in hopes of "changing"them into these
" knights in shining armors." They most often times live to regret it but by then they have to ride it out because they have already defended them to everyone else.Smile at the fact they realize their mistake and when they become real women they will look for what is already there instead of what they think they can make out of them.:)

Answer 8

Only insecure women prefer loosers because they think that they can't do any better and want to "save" the guy. Guys do the same thing when there is a self-esteem problem.

Answer 9

first of all-only a small percentage do date actual losers-i dont
second-most men are jealous-so if a sexy women isn't with YOU hes a loser
third-some guys, job or not, know HOW to treat women, sorry for your luck
fourth-good sex is good sex, that beats being alone-so were just in it for that till better arrives
We date what we like, sometimes the best ones are not rich-hopefully they are-but happiness isn't material.

Answer 10

those type of women usually had an abusive childhood, and feel worthless, so who ever will take her she is greatful. those types of men are controlling and propbably had a rough childhood as well. so together instead of making a life they get deeper into distruction. and usually have no ambition to better their lives. it all boils down to misery loves company.

Answer 11

loosers always say to the girl friend yes to every thing because they usually do not want to make unhappy always keep the girl in good books ,she like that always she tell herself stupid and laught to herself. but the man knows ,he leave it because ,he thinks it's a petty thing.