Ok, so me and my ex dated for about 7 months and I fell in love after about four, and so did she. She was my first in just about everything major and I love her to death. However, she is back to talking to her other ex that she dated for 2 years and was obsessed with. When they broke up she was heartbroken and he wudnt talk to her for a year and now he is so she is all over it. Me and her have broken up and she told me that she hates me and never wants to talk to me again and all of that, but I know it isnt true. i did make some mistakes, I wasnt myself alot of the time with her, i tried to be the nice guy and that isnt me, or what she wants. I love her so much and I know she still loves me deep down. But she will never talk to me until this other guy is out of the picture and he is bad news. He cheats and does drugs, but she wont believe it. I dont know what to do because I will do almost anthing to get her back. O yah, I have told her all of this too. What should I do ???
2006-11-17 00:35:50 · 15 answers · asked by killersfan_08 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Take a break, let her realise for herself hes a loser. You need to play abit more harder to get, I know you love her very much but a girl likes to chase, not to be chased! if you get what i am saying, if u r the right one then she will realise. if she doesnt realise then its her loss. Atleast u learnt ur lesson to try n be urself more, then maybe she will c u for who u r. She is 2 obsessed with this druggo to think of you as more than a friend, howabout you talk to her best friend (female friend) and tell her what is going on? She needs to hear about the other guy from someone elses mouth otherwise she will pretend to herself you r just making up the stories about him being a druggi so that you will seem better than him. Send her a bunch of red roses one day, do whatever you can to make her come to her senses, as to forgetting the other guy- figure out whether he is interested in her or not, if he doesnt want anything to do with her than she needs to know that so she can get over him!!
You probably love her so much because she was your first love, and they are always the hardest to get over.
Sorry i wrote so much..
Goodluck with everything and i hope it all works out :)
2006-11-17 00:49:20 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think u should let her find about the other guy by herself. When she finds out, maybe she would come back to u. N a relationship u should always be yourself, show her that u r there 4 her no matter what her choice is.
2006-11-17 00:45:10 · answer #2 · answered by mizz_gangsta_07 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think of that became stable. tell her that being completely Blind for her makes you do issues in effortless terms a grown guy does while he's in love. And you may now no longer because of the fact you're misplaced without no innovative and prescient.
2016-10-15 16:10:12 · answer #3 · answered by balom 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need patience. Patience will bring anything back to your court. Patiently tell her, show her how much you love her and care her. Anything won't happen all of a sudden. You need patience.
Remember one thing don't lie her.
Build trust on you.
All the best...
2006-11-17 00:44:38 · answer #4 · answered by Sekhar 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hi, me 2 broke up about 2 years with my x boyfreind and guess it now in january i am going to get engage. me2 it happened i think about him afterall i have loved him. i advise you to put in mind that her x was thi first boy she loved. watever the boy is loved happened between them. its difficult to forget. u must agree to this fact.if u feel that she still held some deep feeling for u just go and talk to her. tell her clear wat u feel 4 her. tell her you wud try to be the best boyfreind and you wud love her illimited. try if possible to gather some facts that wud proved thet cowardice of her x. have the help of ur best freind to do that. and i strongly advise u wen u do research on her x dont let any1 knw. some1 can play dirty tricks on u and u get trap. tell only some1 who u trust. and for ur girlfreind, if u explain to her ur love, u show her evidence against her x and she still does not sant u i say only 2 words"forget her" i am sure u will get some1 who realy love u and merit ur love.
2006-11-17 00:52:41 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just go up to her and tell her that you made some mistakes and wern't you most the time. Tell her you really love her. Ask her for another chance. Then beg.
2006-11-17 00:44:09 · answer #6 · answered by Allie loves Nick J. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try Popping the question, See if she realize how very much she means to you. Maybe with her knowing you would spend the rest of your life with her will make her fill secure.
2006-11-17 00:45:58 · answer #7 · answered by tammy b 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave her find out for herself. She may come back to you. But if you say all these things over & over it will just drive her further away. I symathize what you are going thriugh. Good luck!!!
2006-11-17 00:44:03 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
YOU CANT REALLY BRO, SHE'S OBVIOUSLY A MORON WHO'D LOVE THIS GUY EVEN IF HE WAS AN AXE MURDERED WHO FISTED KITTENS IN DARK ALLEYWAYS.THE HARDER YOU TRY TO GET HER BACK THE MORE SHE'LL PUSH AWAY FROM YOU. I KNOW YOU LOVE HER, DONT BE A MORON, STAY AWAY FROM HER, NO CONTACT...YOU CAN WIN THIS BY TAKING A LEAVE OF ABSENCE....EITHER THAT OR U CAN HACK HER UP AND BURY HER IN YOUR BACKYARD......BUT I WOULD RECOMMEND THAT EITHER. ----SINCERELY, HANNIBAL
2006-11-17 00:44:15 · answer #9 · answered by al kyder 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get over it and move on.
2006-11-17 00:46:19 · answer #10 · answered by Melody M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋