so my EX boyfriend Eddie is a big shot hockey player for Binghamton, NY and like we broke up and he still tells me that he likes and all that stuff and i still go to his games and stuff to support him because i still care about him but then again most of the time hes a jerk and then the other half of the time hes completley nice and i have no clue what to do... stick with him or say Buh Bye ? I mean we fought alot when we were dating and when we broke up all his friends started liking me more than most of them already had and he started calling me a slut and stuff and now that we talked last night on hes being nice all over again should i put up with his crap !!?¿?
2006-11-17 00:30:42 · 9 answers · asked by *[Hanna]* 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Tell him he has to change or you will be gone. It's really hard to get over ex's,But it's even nicer to have someone who treats you better. Sounds to me hockey more important than anything.
2006-11-17 00:41:21 · answer #1 · answered by tammy b 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you enjoy this kind of treatment, then I guess stick with him. But, this guy has shown his true colors with his big mouth, calling you names even a stranger wouldn't. It shows he doesn't respect you, and that you don't respect yourself. Don't you think you deserve better treatment than that? Don't you realize there ARE guys out there that don't call you nasty names? It's possible to have a sweet relationship with a man who really treasures you. How do I know? I've been married to mine for over 29 years, and I ain't letting go! You need to sit Mr. Big Mouth down and have a serious chat about who you are and are not. Tell him what you expect out of your relationship. If he don't think you're worth the effort, tell him buh bye. I'll tell you from experience that fighting a lot is NOT normal. Him calling you names is NOT normal. Since he's being nice now, this is the time to see what's up with him. I'm sure that he won't like the talk. But, if he truly wants you, he'll make the effort. And if you truly want this to work, you and he have to have better communication than fighting. By the way...when you break up with someone, you don't support them by going to their games, even if they tell you they still like you. Cutting it off, making him your ex means you're done...stick a fork in it. Again, don't you think you deserve better treatment than what he's giving you? There's better fish in the sea. Honestly. <*)))><
2006-11-17 00:45:35 · answer #2 · answered by Sandylynn 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is what happened with my ex. You love him, but there are some things you cannot stand about them. You need to say BAH BYE!! and close the ex-files. Stop all contact with him and start a new chapter, you need to get him out of your head because he sounds arragant. Dont put up with his fake niceness, he has been an a**hole before and there is nothing to stop him from doing it again.
Find someone else you deserves and appreciates you. You dont need him as a boyfriend, you dont need him as an ex, you dont need him as a friend and u definetley dont need people like tht in ur life!!
goodluck hun!
2006-11-17 00:40:52 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
no, you shouldnt; definitely not!
dont put up with anyones
crap, no matter how popular
or well-known they are.
even if they look like brad pitt,
anyone that treats you poorly
doesnt deserve the time of day.
if hes a jerk, then try to stay away
from him. i've had my fair share
of jerk-liking experiences, and none
of them have ended up well- trust
me. you just have to leave him be.
theres obviously a reason you two
broke up and very seldom to relationships
work a second time, anyway. its time
that you say good-bye for good.
goodluck with things!!!! :]
2006-11-17 00:39:39 · answer #4 · answered by sweet.heart_xoxo 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-22 06:07:47 · answer #5 · answered by crabbs 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just simmer it down for a while and just put your foot down for a awhile. Just tell him that you need to think on some things and tell him that you will give him the decision in a couple days. All you need to do is just think on what you've just said.
2006-11-17 00:36:04 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He sounds like a total @rse...I'd give it 1 more try....and if he doesn't change his ways...say "buh bye".
2006-11-17 00:37:48 · answer #7 · answered by ♥♥♥GODDESS♥♥♥ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Listen to what you're saying missy
2006-11-17 00:35:57 · answer #8 · answered by brown_sugah064 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hes not worth it. tell him 2 **** off. you deserve betta than that creap. all the best x x
2006-11-17 00:36:35 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋