xmas is about love and spend time with people you love and respect...i dont want to be alone...and i do have feelings for him....
2006-11-17 00:29:40 · 6 answers · asked by elenitsa!!!! 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If you have feelings for him then why is he your ex.I think you should go for a new friend this Xmas.After all ex is ex forget him.
2006-11-17 00:53:59 · answer #1 · answered by suchsi 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Getting back together with someone whom you've broken up with for the sake of not spending the holidays alone has never been a good idea. It's unfair not only to the other person but to yourself as well. It's parallel to settling for something that you really did not want but because of fear you would do so.
Did you know that you can actually be alone and be filled with not only happiness but joy? And not be alone but miserable and lonely? See the irony?
And going back to your ex, yes, you might still have feelings for him but does it really justify your desire to get back with him?
It is really pure love or is it just a mere attraction that is only fleeting and temporary?
I do agree with the others who said that if you hate spending the holidays alone, then it's more worth it to spend it with your family and friends -- the people you do love and respect.
And you could actually make it more meaningful by spending it with people who are not really close to you but out of the goodness of your heart, you would like helping out in a shelter or something similar.
It's a different kind of fun but something that you'll consider to be a well spent time.
2006-11-17 10:20:55 · answer #2 · answered by Alias G 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it's a bad reason to start seeing someone again. You can enjoy the holidays with you family and friends. If you truly care about this guy and want a relationship with him that's different. Maybe you should think about why you broke up in the first place before you jump back in. Don't use the holidays as an excuse to get him back.
2006-11-17 09:00:42 · answer #3 · answered by vanhammer 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes You should back with what do U mean the ex if its the close relationship
2006-11-17 08:47:44 · answer #4 · answered by Ramasubramanian 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
S u shud go back 2 ur ex & x-mas is a time enjoy & have fun & share ur joys vit others.
2006-11-17 08:50:08 · answer #5 · answered by nutan_nutty 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes u can that will make u happy surely
2006-11-17 12:32:27 · answer #6 · answered by Rajeshwara chary S 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋