he went to aus for 6 months on monday. I always knew he was going so my own fault for getting involved. Now he is emailing me saying he has fallen for me and offering to buy me a ticket to go see him (he isnt rich). I'm not sure how much I like him (its only been 3 weeks). Should I take the free ticket?
2006-11-17 00:28:27 · 18 answers · asked by Nettle 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Not yet..continue talking to him by phone and online. If the both of you still feel the same way one or two months later..i'm sure he'll offer the free ticket for you to come down. and you better get going down-under at that time :>
2006-11-17 00:37:20 · answer #1 · answered by peacelover 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think the 2 of you should keep in contact, see how things develop. If after the first of the year the 2 of you still feel the conection then you should take him up on his offer, dont make him waste money he doesn't have just so you get a free vacation. Good Luck!
2006-11-17 08:37:26 · answer #2 · answered by BiancaVee 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't be as stupid as him girl........Go, go, go.
If it DOSEN'T work you got a free ride to Oz & he can say he gave it a go & you both learn from the experience. An expensive lesson for him you might say but life is full of em.
If it DOES work it will be the best money he ever spent & it will be a great story at your wedding, for your kids, & even the grandkids.
DON'T miss your chance for a life Adventure & chance at Love just because your afraid of how you might feel. The prize, if you find it, is held above all others in our short lives.
Good Luck!
2006-11-17 08:51:08 · answer #3 · answered by alostaussie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not if it is just for the ticket.
Treat other people with the dignity and respect you would want for yourself.
Let him get settled before either of you commit to buying tickets. Chat on email and get to know him some more, just like an old fashioned long-distance romance.
2006-11-17 08:36:56 · answer #4 · answered by LL 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Talk with him over the phone, see if u can rekindle a spark... if u feel as tho u may have a chance, offer to pay half of the ticket and go!!
2006-11-17 08:35:35 · answer #5 · answered by AussieGal777 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to figure it out real quick and not lead him on if you are not that serious. Do not take advantage of him.He sounds like a nice and caring person. He sounds like he was honest with his feeling and you should have the decency to find out what your are and let him know..if you decide to take the ticket let him know up front before he buys them that you are unsure of you feelings for him.
2006-11-17 08:40:26 · answer #6 · answered by cyborg_2099 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes, i think it would be a great opportunity, anyway its only a little while so why not? You should probably be a little more adventurous and give it a shot. If it doesn't work out then it's too bad. Be a little less cautious and a little more adventurous. Hope you go!
2006-11-17 08:35:32 · answer #7 · answered by devltam 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
First tell him how you feel about him and the relationship. Then after, if he still extends the invitation and you do sincerely want to see him. Then go for it.
many blessings,
2006-11-17 08:36:40 · answer #8 · answered by Jen 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't do it. You don't have intimate feelings for him yet and what are you going to do if you do go over and you don't hit it off with him. You may be stuck looking for your own ride back.
2006-11-17 08:35:55 · answer #9 · answered by Jer 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
give him a chance. if thingz dont work out you can still come back. he must like u alot 2 dw that. go on go girl. wish u al the best.x
2006-11-17 08:34:21 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋