I slept with a friend who i really like, and i was good, but now he says that he is not ready 4 a relationship and is an idiot 4 not telling me sooner. he says he is into us hooking up still...but that is all for now...
im not sure of what i want as i do like him, and i know i may get emotionally involved, and i love spending time with him and was very happy just hanging out and just being friends before we slept together...
thing is now... all he can do is say that he is sorry for not telling me his intentions before we got intimate...and now i dont know wat to do. do i continue sleeping with him?
is it possible for him to realise down the line that he actually wants more than just sex, and for something more to develope btwn us, or am i destined to get hurt??
2006-11-17 00:26:06 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Stop sleeping with him and if later on down the road he realizes that he wants more then sex-and you are still available- he will let you know. He may think that he has you where he wants you.
2006-11-17 00:34:19 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I could be wrong but there is an age old quote that goes like this "why buy the cow when you can get the milk for free?" Personally, I wouldn't sleep with him again. That's all part of a relationship. Lots of men feel like sex is the best part of a relationship and you're giving it to this guy with nothing in return.
2006-11-17 00:46:20 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
whilst the teach began they have been meant to be females of their 20's. issues have been distinctive sexually then. It replaced into nonetheless very plenty the intercourse, drugs and rock & roll mentality of the 70's. before AIDS, and all the STDs that are obtainable as we talk. i'm happy I lived interior the time I did, no concerns or fears approximately could I or shouldn't I through fact certainly everyone replaced into doing it with certainly everyone! All we ever had to fret approximately replaced into getting pregnant and attributable to "the pill" which got here alongside whilst i replaced into approximately 18, that replaced into in no way an argument the two. the international is a very risky place now and that i think sorry for the youngsters and youthful adults that would desire to be so careful approximately each thing!!!!
2016-12-10 10:44:39 · answer #3 · answered by Erika 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My wife and I started that way. It was just supposed to be a F buddy, but she started wanting more after a while. Only 2 months after knowing her and getting together, she told me she loved me and was going to marry me. She just kept up after me, and I realized after a while I'd be a fool to give her up. All of my past failed relationships showed me, this one would be a good thing and not a one way street like all the others. Obviously since I said "My wife and I..." she finally turned me to the dark side, and we got married back in July. I still tease her about I should have left it as F buddies and hired somebody to do the laundry and dishes since it would have been cheaper than a relationship, but I'm glad we're married now.
2006-11-17 00:39:37 · answer #4 · answered by scotty_b_1976 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO, don't continue having sex because your feelings will become more involved then u would like. If he just wanted 2 b friends, continue to b friends because he's only going to expect sex from u, nothing more and nothing less.
2006-11-17 00:40:19 · answer #5 · answered by mizz_gangsta_07 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
for a first step stop sleeping with him --- that will sort out some feelings --- if he cares for you it will not change the relationship --- if all he was after was sex then it will end
either way the problem should be solved
2006-11-17 00:34:03 · answer #6 · answered by Waterdragon 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
follow your heart, if you want to continoue having sex with him, do so but bear in mind that it is just casual, i do not think you should hope that he will realise down the line that he wants more than sex, if he hasnt now he most likley wont in future, if he does he will just be settling down for second best after loosing wat he would rather have had.
2006-11-17 00:38:51 · answer #7 · answered by evets 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is quite clear about it. Stop sleeping with him, until he is ready to commit, unless you are ready to get hurt.
2006-11-17 00:33:36 · answer #8 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Been there done that didn't work.. I was devastated!!! Personally it doesn't work for me
2006-11-17 00:32:25 · answer #9 · answered by brown_sugah064 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋