am i holding onto nothing?

Question

Arg. My boyfriend cheated on me. And, we are currently taking a break. When I saw him yesterday[two days after we went on the break] at school, we both had a major breakdown, and ran to each other. We were still kissing and we still were telling each other we loved each other. We weren't going out for that long, which is what makes it weird. But, yesterday after school, he answered my phone calls and then was like "baby, i gotta call you back" and never did. But, I know he is going threw some **** at home. I don't know. I'm just wondering if I'm holding on to nothing.

I called him this morning, and his phone was off, which scares me.
That boy never turns his phone off. Unless, he gets it taken away.

Answer 1

If he was worried about your feelings, he would have called you back or talked to you then. I'm sorry to say that I think he's keeping you hanging around just in case. You have to make the decision if you can handle wondering where he is and what he's doing. A relationship will go nowhere without trust.

Answer 2

honey, i gotta just say this:
a cheater once, a cheater twice.

but i COULD be wrong. not all men are the same. if you're wondering whether or not he is worth the effort, ask yourself this: does he act respectful to you?
because if he doesnt respect you or your feelings, then he isnt saying much for how he feel about your relationship. if youre having second thoughts, or that weird feeling in your gut that somthing is just wrong, then you might want to really think about how important your relationship is to BOTH of you. dont put yourself through somethin that is going to hurt if you can prevent it. i know its hard to decide these things. you have to do what is best for you! good luck and best wishes!

Answer 3

well the fact that he cheated on you
says a lot about him. he obviously
isnt too loyal of a person and im
guessing not too trustworthy either.
sounds to me like this one wants to
have his cake and eat it to; have a gf
steadily but get some from other girls
on the side. you dont deserve to be
treated like that to him. i understand that
if you love him its hard to give him up;
trust me, i know. but its something that
i think would be most beneficial. once he
sees what he's missing, he will soon be
begging you to be with him; im sure of it.
cut him out of your life for the most part
and he will come crawling back. at that
point, its up to you what u want to do.
i would deny him, just because doing so
would be so extrememly satisfying after
what he did to you, and because he really
doesnt deserve someone as nice as you,
but like i said- use your personal discretion
on that part of it.

good luck to you;
i hope things work out
very well! :]