Most of us agree that, a love making requires foreplay, actual sex, and foreplay after... and cuddles and talk a little bit at the end.
so... over all.... how long should a great love making session last?! the reason that I'm asking... is because I've been told that I last too long. and apprently its not a good thing.
from the guy's point of view, the longer the better. for girls,... sex can be mentally and emotionally exhausting... how long do you ladies think? what about the all night?
2006-11-16 23:21:57 · 9 answers · asked by LeoRS250 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
All night on occasions is alright but the guys who want to do it all the time have to realise that we can't keep lubricated for all that length of time.
My partner and I usually have sex between the 1 and 3 hour period. We don't do it that often because that is how long we like to spend and we don't often have that much time when we aren't both already exhausted.
2006-11-16 23:27:07 · answer #1 · answered by sarah071267 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you have a lot on your plate at the moment. It must be stressful to have your loved ones fall ill. There have also been a lot of drastic changes in your life. I have been through many stages in my life where everything just piled up and I felt suffocated. The good news is that it will pass and you will regain control. I don't really have much advice on what you can do other than to try to find something to keep you busy. It sounds to me like you need to have a break and do something that will bring some enjoyment to your life. Get your boyfriend and do something fun even if it just means to go to the pictures and watch a comedy. I wouldn't worry too much about your dream. If you were gay, I am sure you would know it. I doubt that any gay person in the world realized they were gay because of a dream. I really hope your grandfather gets better.
2016-05-21 22:22:33 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Foreplay is incredibly NB, and the more aroused you are from it, the better sex is, and the quicker a woman can reach orgasm.
My man sometimes ends foreplay too quickly though, and as a result... he thrusts for ages. im talking an hour and sometimes longer. until im sore, and then turned off. I understand guys think that us women enjoy this. But the truth is that it can and very often does hurt us, rubbing us raw, until sex becomes painful..
As to the correct lenght of time it shoud span, there is no right answer. just give her lots of foreplay, until she is ready for penetration, and then enjoy sex and know when enough is enough.
all night sessions are amazing too, but that does not mean that they comprise entirely of thrusting...they are slow and passionate and filled with kissing, cuddeling and lots of "down there" attention to her.
its not about quantity...its about quality!!!
2006-11-16 23:36:04 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
As long as it feels right. My boyfriend and I have had 2 and 4 hour marathons at times. But it does depend on the mood, and also if we are working the next day! Lucky for us, we both enjoy sex, so it is never an issue of too long or not enough! (LOL)
2006-11-16 23:40:57 · answer #4 · answered by dragonfly 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Personally the whole night. A guy who lasts long is an added bonus. Just make sure you are making love and not just banging away if you know what I mean...
2006-11-16 23:29:16 · answer #5 · answered by brown_sugah064 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
2 hours
2006-11-16 23:25:57 · answer #6 · answered by LiL MaMi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have to ask a question like this then you must be one of the ladies. In a mans point of view it's always over too soon. You sound like it's a man you really want - Gay Wad.
2006-11-16 23:38:02 · answer #7 · answered by mojoey5 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
sorry... it's not in how long...some sessions are explosive even if it's just a few minutes while some took hours...
but anything that takes too long can be boring... she'll just grit her teeth and grind away since she doesn't want to leave you unsatisfied...even if all she's already tired and wants to sleep...
besides all those rubbing generates friction... and it can hurt!
2006-11-16 23:32:59 · answer #8 · answered by peanut butter 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it depends on what kind of person you are... some people are "for one night" and some aren't......
2006-11-16 23:28:22 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋