I have a classmate who likes me and he sits next to me......I keep on acting normal even though I feel insecure and shy. I don't want to go and say hi to him first but he doesn't talk much. I want to talk to him but I don't know what to tell him and I feel uncomfortable and shy when he's around. I don't know if I'm starting to have feelings for him. I want him to be my friend but how? I can't talk to him because I'm way too shy....we only talk for a short conversation. Do you think I like him because I know that he likes me? or is it because I really like him but I just don't want to admit it to myself? Please answer my questions. If you want you can e-mail me or chat with me if you wish. Here's my e-mail address (lady_sparkle26@yahoo.com). I would really appreciate if you help me out. Thank you!
2006-11-16 23:21:30 · 7 answers · asked by lady_sparkle26 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think you should make conversation first before thinking who like who, its easier to deal with anyway. First step, is well continue on with the conversations even if they are short. Why don't you ask him about your lessons, like you need a bit of explaining on this topic or that...you can tell him you're going to go to a concert and ask what he thinks of their music, you'll build your comfortablity level and you get to know him as well. Build a bond first then as you get to know him better, you'll get a feel of the kind of chemistry you have. Just relax,he's a great guy, but he's JUST a guy. You can handle this.
2006-11-16 23:36:47 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He likes you, and you know it. Someone who likes you will never get too close or touch you, they're too busy trying not to be awkward themselves!
If you are too uncomfortable with approaching him yourself, just hang around himand offer friendship when he needs it (but not when he's with his friends, as guys try to keep eachother away from girls) . If he never approaches you, then you don't want to be with him anyway, he would drive you crazy! Sometimes love is misdirected, but you should do whatever you feel like doing because this is most often what is right.
2006-11-16 23:35:02 · answer #2 · answered by Nénuphar 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Pride goeth before a fall, Lose the shyness and just talk to him. You said that you have had short conversations with him, if you can do that then you can talk to him at length. A persons' head/brain tends to give warning signs to us so your insecurity around him might be a warning but I don't think so, so just start talking and who knows where it might lead. Good Luck
2006-11-16 23:31:57 · answer #3 · answered by call2fly 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
How did you act before you found out that he liked you? If all that started after you found out, then I'd say you don't really like him. If it started before you found out, then there is a good chance that you really do like him. You'll only find out if you really do by getting to know him. If you can't work up the nerve to talk to him, then try writing him little notes and stuff first. It should work out. Good luck.
2006-11-16 23:29:58 · answer #4 · answered by ceecee_41004 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I think you may actually feel uncomfortable because you are really a lesbian and this dude is probably somewhat feminim. Go for a girl and see if you feel more comfortable. Besides they taste better.
2006-11-16 23:29:58 · answer #5 · answered by mojoey5 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I think you need little more time to open , anyway you will .
2006-11-16 23:35:21 · answer #6 · answered by your noon 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
give him your email like you did everyone here
2006-11-16 23:32:21 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋