Okay so my ex-girlfriend just dumped me today and I don't know how to act around her anymore. I will see her many times a week at our sporting club which is where we know each other from.
She says she really wants to be friends but I hope she goes to hell after getting cancer (thats a bit harsh but I mean it)
So am I supposed to ignore her when she tries talking to me or do I just consistently tell her that I hope she dies or do I pretend like nothing happened???
2006-11-16 22:09:23 · 12 answers · asked by master_betty_101 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Ok..........I've been here and done that and to be completely honest the best thing that you can do is keep things amicable but don't go into detail. Speak to her if she talks to you but don't go out of your way to make contact/speak to her.
If she asks how you're doing, a simple "Good thanks" will suffice and then move on with your day.
If you allow her to see that you're hurting (and bitter) the more you'll feed her ego and boost her "He can't cope without me" sense of self-appreciation. Be indifferent but polite..........she is no longer a part of your life and, like it or lump it, the main reason that women want to be "friends" after a split is to absolve themselves of any guilt!!
Move on, be courteous but distant towards her, maintain your dignity and self respect at all cost!!
I hope it goes well for you.
2006-11-16 22:26:31 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-04 01:43:48 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would pretend that nothing happened and talked with her nicely if she initiates conversation. i wouldn't initiate it myself, neither i would suggest she burns in hell - that would mean u re so pissed about her dumping u and u feel miserable. u show her u didn't care less about her dumping u. this is gonna upset her
2006-11-16 22:17:35 · answer #3 · answered by jacky 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that's a tough one. I feel your pain. Just be polite to her face and talk all the sh*t you want in your head. Always be a gentleman even though she hurt you, because what goes around comes around ok. You can do it, baby.
2006-11-16 22:18:02 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no dint ignore her when talk to you and dint hope she get cancer and go to hell i would wish than on a dog my Dad die of Cancer be Friend
2006-11-16 22:24:53 · answer #5 · answered by EVA J 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be nice but move on.... then learn your first lesson don't date anyone you either work with of have daily contact with it's a rule I alway's use
2006-11-16 22:23:01 · answer #6 · answered by miester44 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
DON'T wish anything bad to anyone; just ignore her and get a life for yourself. Do something productive!
2006-11-16 22:19:40 · answer #7 · answered by pn3drb 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Pretend like nothing happened. the more she thinks your hurt the more she feels superior.
2006-11-16 22:16:00 · answer #8 · answered by uknowme 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't talk to her right away. I would need time to heal first.
2006-11-16 22:19:54 · answer #9 · answered by rave3708 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You shouldn't act at all. Just be yourself.
2006-11-16 22:17:08 · answer #10 · answered by dorothy1gale 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋