Any of you had this happen? .Id like to think im fairly ok looking nice person good sense of humour ect .Met someone recently who i really liked got on well had a bit of a kiss,he gave me his number but i didnt call (didnt want to appear pushy!!)Met him nx week by chance again got on well asked why i hadnt called him i just said id had manic week. Asked him if he fancied going out one night ?his answer" youre wasting youre time its never going to happen!!! i like you but dont want things to go any further".i was gobsmacked is it he doesnt fancy me or is it coz i never called him?both occasions there was no alcohol involved!I was so embarressed i ended up going home early.
2006-11-16 21:46:19 · 18 answers · asked by smiler 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Sounds to me like he's an arrogant tosser. You're better off without him. Why did he give you his number if he didn't want to go out with you?? It probably hurt his pride that you didn't call the very next day.
2006-11-16 21:53:48 · answer #1 · answered by Wafflebox 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
First things first, stop playing games. You guys met, he gave you his phone number, you wanted to call but didn't (what is that "pushy" statement all about???) now this mess on your hands.
If you wanted to see him you should have called. You should never have made up the lie about being busy, it sounds like he was not worth the effort. Now, since you didn't call he thinks you are playing games with him (and you are). Everyone thinks his statement was rude, I think it sounded like a defensive child.
When he made the comment instead of running away from the situation you should have looked him in the eye and asked him what he ment.
I think you goofed up more than he did. Let it be a lesson learned. Next time call him if you want to or just leave him alone.
2006-11-17 06:21:51 · answer #2 · answered by lily 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I guess he has his hand full at the moment, and he does not have the time to build a new thing until he finishes the business in his hands.
I came across such types, who go out fishing one day and as soon as they get a catch they stop fishing until the catch goes away. They start finishing again.
Typical sales man approach, don't put much thought into him.
2006-11-17 06:01:31 · answer #3 · answered by mjallad 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Im as confused as you are. Has he just got out of a relationship coz i was with a lad like that before who was so messed up by his previous girlfriend that he didnt know what he wanted. Cant think of any other explanation other than that hes a bit weird?
2006-11-17 05:53:51 · answer #4 · answered by kit 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Oh what was his problem, obviously he thought that he was God's gift and you were supposed to call him and swoon at his feet. I think that you are well rid, at least you found out now, rather than later. However in my opinion he seems a tad strange
2006-11-17 06:07:32 · answer #5 · answered by Baps . 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
lily is 100% rt
u had ur chance and u blew it. thats what u get for playing games.
i would think u r a trick a**.
if he can't count on u calling him. he thinks he couldn't count on u in a relationship.
he probably thinks ur a player.
i would have told u to step off. if i wasn't good enough for u to call then i am not good enough to go out.
u see i know ur reasons cause u told us. he doesn't know the real reason. woman think they have to lie and cover things up.
u should have told him the truth
2006-11-17 06:58:59 · answer #6 · answered by jesse james 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Stupid, insensitive idiot!!!!! NO, he's not worth it!!!! He never wanted a relationship with you anyway, he made that clear. No1 deserves such things to be said to them. I guess he just wanted as much out of you as he could get without actually having a real relationship with you. IDIOT!!!
2006-11-17 06:00:04 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hurt you didn't call and it sound like you only asked him out so you could smooth things over and he felt like he is not a charity case.
2006-11-17 06:10:22 · answer #8 · answered by betty_htch 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
did he have your number and not call you.
He sounds rude and full of himself to even speak like that i think i'd be the same and be embarrassed too.
try not to give him a second thought infact think yourself lucky you escaped such a rude person.
2006-11-17 05:56:04 · answer #9 · answered by Nutty Girl 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
This person is not made for you , better find someone else to keep your self happy in future .
2006-11-17 05:59:49 · answer #10 · answered by your noon 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋