If u liked a girl alot, and she went on holiday for a while and came back overweight what would you do?
2006-11-16 21:42:04 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It would be one thing if you were in a long term relationship and had fallen in love with her, but since this is a short term relationship, you can see the red flag early and get out. If she came back and had gained 5-10 pounds, that's one thing. But you are implying that she gained a lot of weight. That is an indication of someone who is so bored that she ate all the time and didn't care about her looks or health.
For all you who say it matters what is on the inside, that is true BUT you are attracted first to what is on the outside and if that goes away before you fall deeply in love, then it's a no-go.
2006-11-16 22:00:02 · answer #1 · answered by Jon O 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just simply tell her i liked the way u looked before more, so i hope u come back to ur normal self.
2006-11-17 05:50:13 · answer #2 · answered by daisy d 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You're lucky she is just overweight and not return with a guy and start ignoring you....or worst telling you they are getting married..
2006-11-17 05:50:09 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
it was the holiday... im sure that the weight will come off. i mean how much weight can you really gain that fast... ?
2006-11-17 05:58:37 · answer #4 · answered by lacefranks 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Will jump with pleasure , as it gives your more joy man . Bonus
2006-11-17 05:52:51 · answer #5 · answered by your noon 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
love her love the dog, don't make too serious for her appearance, advise her to exercise and encourage her have healthy food, support her, be patient
2006-11-17 05:50:05 · answer #6 · answered by Neighbour 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
her size doesnt change who she is. she is stil the same person jus with a lil xtra 2 love
2006-11-17 06:04:04 · answer #7 · answered by Mysy 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
my opinion is you should like her for her personality , not for looks because if u like her for her looks then your relationship aint gonna last long as people's looks change every single day . good luck . x
2006-11-17 05:52:20 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
It shouldn't matter, you like what was on the inside right?
2006-11-17 05:46:14 · answer #9 · answered by betty_htch 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
girls weight fluctuate sometimes, i wouldnt worry. plus if thats all you care about then you dont like her for the right reason anyway!
2006-11-17 05:48:40 · answer #10 · answered by jcmodelchick 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋