I am beautiful and intelligent.I am 22 years old and still a virgin.I know they care about me because they keep coming back for reconcilliation.
2006-11-16 21:20:33 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Try doing something about the virgin bit !
2006-11-16 21:25:55 · answer #1 · answered by nicemanvery 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It's probably not reconciliation they are coming back for! You are a challenge to them. Don't pay attention to the idiots out there telling you to give up your virginity because that's not the way to get a NICE guy. You obviously don't want to be a notch in some creeps belt and that's why they leave. The more determined ones come back for another try at your virginity and assuage their ego. So take time to really look for a guy that will respect your virginity and your wishes; there are still a lot of them out there.. You are young and beautiful so time is on your side. As for being conceited that is not the issue, you have a right to be proud of your morals and your intelligence, and that is not conceit. What percentage of women, today, can say they will be pure for their husband...single digit! I know it sounds old fashioned but give it up to some creep and he will move on, anyway, and you'll be left with less than you started. Old fashioned has been around for a long time because it works. Remember a guy that fools around indiscrimainately is a hero in his own mind but a girl that does the same is a tramp.
2006-11-16 21:54:30 · answer #2 · answered by avalonphillip 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Believe it or not - most of us sub-consciously go for the wrong people - you need to take a break from the dating scene and from all your exes. Start to go to different places and do different things that you might enjoy - then you will start to meet like minded people. There is nothing wrong with you being a virgin at 22 - it just means you have not met the one that will make you loose your head and heart! I did meet my match and have been married for over 17years and still counting - this was after continuously going out with guys that just kept putting me down and telling me where a women's place is - guess what - they lost out !
2006-11-16 21:29:32 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think the phrase here is to know thyself is to know god. the problem is that some people think there life is going to be worked out on the fly or by someone else. thre real challenge in life is to know what you want and how you want to go after that.
the challenge in being loved is go give somone something to love.
sharing, communication and growing together are only parts of a relationship...the strongest part is when two halves make a whole the better than the two parts that made it.
2006-11-16 21:27:38 · answer #4 · answered by koalatcomics 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
they never work out because if you think from a guys point of view they always have sex on their mind and sometimes when a guy is not getting it from his girlfriend they will find it somewhere else. but they also think that your a good girl that's why they keep coming back... they wouldnt make an effort if they dont have feelings for you so you have to give them credit for trying
2006-11-16 21:28:52 · answer #5 · answered by kaddy86 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As your name i can guess you belong to muslim community,and therefore there is a collusion of cultures,leave your culture and don't keep your virginity as a gift or stay virgin and wait for a man who cares about those values!
2006-11-16 21:59:07 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is because they want sex..and no guy in today's world is interested in marriage ,more than 50% end up in divorce and the guy usually ends up paying for it with half his wages for the next 20 years..that is why.
2006-11-16 21:26:04 · answer #7 · answered by Dfirefox 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Maybe because you are a virgin at age 22, they think there is something wrong with you.
2006-11-16 21:24:52 · answer #8 · answered by HM 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u hav not mentioned all the details abt ur breakups,but i thnk may be bcoz ur gud luks and intelligence packed up in a single packet they find it difficult for being wid u,i mean they get insecure and thats y!!
2006-11-16 21:24:42 · answer #9 · answered by vish 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
men want sex in a relationship,so they leave,they only come back to see if you changed your mind about sex yet,if not they leave again.Find you a older man if your not ready for sex,some don't have sex anymore.Or go to church you may meet someone willing to wait until you 2 get married
2006-11-16 21:47:33 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋