I've read a few posts here on Yahoo! Answers that if a woman loves her man she would fake the orgasm?
Why would you do that?
How many women actually fake it?
Married on just in a strong Relationship?
Please be honest. It really intrests me.
2006-11-16 21:13:58 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
nah never need to fake it (and it doesnt always happen)
i would think it would be insulting to the guy.
am secure enough (both of us) to not need to pretend.
2006-11-16 21:17:42 · answer #1 · answered by Ruthie Baby 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
On one factor, that's an oxymoron. On yet another that's love that twisted. Now if there not in any respect replaced into any, and continually replaced right into a lie, then it is the first one. yet love can commence off and bypass incorrect, develop into pretend or faked. lengthy married couples can discover themselves in a foul position of now not loving the guy yet feeling they could or they could attempt this, and they'll then pretend this. in spite of everything, that's really scary to debate it, what's going to ensue? What would the different individual imagine or SAY? we oftentimes do not listen even as the problem is emotional, we may be able to listen our personal 'tape' on it, our personal weak point can come to the vanguard.
2016-11-25 00:07:31 · answer #2 · answered by whitmire 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I had a husband who gave me a guaranteed orgasm every Sunday morning between 0930 and 0945 and I've never experienced anything more meaningless.
Then I fell in love with the love of my life; inevitably the first couple of times he was bursting at the seams and there wasn't any time for foreplay. (I think the root of the problem is that most men don't understand that most women reach orgasm through foreplay rather than actual intercourse). I don't think he knew this despite being pretty experienced. So I forced the issue in a way that rather delighted him, i.e. I tied him to the bedposts and lay on top of him and ... well, you can work the rest out for yourself. So he got to know what a thorough female orgasm looked like.
The relationship was so strong, and so strongly sexual, that there were plenty of times when we just needed to collide on the kitchen table (or whatever horizontal surface was handy) and under those circumstances it was more important to connect than for me to have an orgasm. But I used to tease him sometimes ... 'yep, but I'll trade you for something long and complicated later ...' and that worked. And we could talk about it; also, he had daughters and I wrote a couple of 'this is what you should tell your daughter' letters that he read avidly.
My experience was that we basically lusted after each other at some level pretty much all the time, and we made love when we had something to say ... and what we had to say was different each time. I hope you have a relationship like that and I hope I've given a few hints.
By the way, I miss him like hell. Any spell-casters out there willing to work on my behalf would be very welcome.
2006-11-16 21:31:54 · answer #3 · answered by mrsgavanrossem 5 · 1⤊ 2⤋
I've been married 17 years and I have faked it before. There were more reasons than just because I love him though. I may have faked it about 5 times at the most, becuase we wanted to have sex but I just couldn't clear my mind, or I my body was hurting, or I wanted to hurry up. Stuff like that. He has his times too, when yes, he wants to have sex, but just can't relax right that day. It's ok, it happens. As for Faking it all the time, that's a no brainer, get out of the relationship, the whole thing is Fake. Just my opinion, peace.
2006-11-16 21:21:51 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Don't be so quick to asume that it's only females out there that fake! And, while we are at it, don't be too quick to beleive that faking is a bad thing.
When I was with my last girlfriend I used to fake like I was getting really close and it would make her go off every time! That way I could make her finish 2-3 times and then, well she is much more enthusiastic in pleasing me in return:)
2006-11-17 01:10:17 · answer #5 · answered by superinteligent shade of blue 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Sometimes I fake it. I do it for him, so he can feel satisfied, not just sexually in himself but also so he can feel good in himself that he satisfied me. I am often just too darn tired to get horny enough to reach orgasm. I have four children one of which is autistic and I am stuffed by the time I get to bed. It is easier to just go through the motions, than to say no. He is happy and I get to sleep without the obligatory argument about how i always deny him.
2006-11-16 21:20:53 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
It happened to me once, so I can tell you "why":)
Everyone knows there are such days that you're so fed up with having sex, especially if the previous days it's been a pure sex marathon. So you're tired and not really into it. Your guy is doing his best to make you enjoy the act and you know he really does care to make you feel good. Why to disappoint him? Even more, a woman should encourage her man if she sees he's attentive to her needs. If you let him down in this moment who knows whether he won't give up on doing it in the future:)
That's all, you take care for your guy's self-confidence so that in the future he'd take care of you:) It's that simple.
2006-11-16 21:24:55 · answer #7 · answered by venitoo 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
why fake it?? if you do he thinks he has done a good job, he will keep doing the same thing and you never have an orgasm!! NO WAY make him work for it
2006-11-16 21:19:46 · answer #8 · answered by sharon w 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I use to fake it all the time with my boyfriend.if they are really sweating and into it and they get there's and they ask if you got yours.I say yes so that they can feel good about their self and go to sleep.I said no one time and he started to cry saying lets do it again.when I told him I was fine he asked me would I cheat on him,I only said no one time.I loved him for him and not for the sex.
2006-11-16 21:21:00 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
In a relationship and I occasionally fake it, because he wears out quicker than I do and I don't want to hurt his feelings and make him think he can't make me "finish".
It's fun getting there, I just don't often get passed there...
2006-11-16 21:18:05 · answer #10 · answered by Dolphin lover 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Q: Why do women fake orgasms?
A: Cause they think men care.
xxB
2006-11-16 21:17:11 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋