is it worth falling in love when majority of the time you leave brokern hearted?
2006-11-16 21:06:05 · 35 answers · asked by convert 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i am right in the middle of getting my heart stomped on for the 2nd time. Im feeling very worthless and sad. my relationship use to be good... and some how it turned rotten. i hate hurting but the whole experience taught me more about myself. Even though it hurts when you fall out of it... i really do believe that love it worth it. you have to kiss a few frogs before you find your prince:)
2006-11-16 21:12:44 · answer #1 · answered by lacefranks 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
yep, coz each of those intense romantic meetings you have help you to define what it is you really want from your partner (and from yourself for that matter too).
we make mistakes every day, and love is just another area we're untrained in, so what better way to get things right than to fall in and out of love a few times.
does your broken heart last forever, or it just feels that way? isn't that initial feeling of falling for someone fantastic and doesn't it make you feel as if you can accomplish anything. the magic of positive thoughts that come from love is well worth those moments (that seem like decades) of sadness when we fall out of love or have our hearts broken.
keep going, enjoy the ride, and the person you love forever will be so wonderful you'll forget all the heartaches of the past.
2006-11-16 21:18:51 · answer #2 · answered by pugsbaby 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Unfortunately...falling in love is not completely within our control. We cannot will ourselves to love someone and we certainly cannot stop it from happening. Most times you don't have a clue until after it has en captured you.Many times you might think you are when actually you're not.
Love is a very powerful emotion that very few can prepare for or handle with precision. If you are fortunate to find this elusive lady, get yourself ready for the ride.
I believe it is better to have loved and lost, than to never have loved at all.
2006-11-16 21:26:44 · answer #3 · answered by Robere 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is something I am currently pondering. Yesterday morning everything was good and by the afternoon we were on the verge of splitting and now I don't know where I stand. I wonder if it's worth it or not because the pain landed me in hospital. I guess it's because I love him so much I gave him so much of myself that I have nothing left for myself. I just don't know if it's worth it or not although I'll never stop believing in love or hoping to have my life filled with it.
2006-11-16 21:54:46 · answer #4 · answered by Little One 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's worth if you have the right person. But to add more to your discouragement, there is no right person. You have to shape yourself to be the right one with time in love.
I believe it's worth being with wrong person instead of right one because you don't have to put your feelings on the line and get hurt in the end.
Getting hurt with one right person is worse than being dumped by 100 wrong ones.
2006-11-16 23:40:07 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Falling in love wasn't get hearted ,it is always bringing happiness
Falling in love full of jealously it is not worth ,majority of time it is doesn't really the matter
2006-11-16 21:23:23 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
it depends on how u handle ur relationship. maybe u've just been dating the wrong kinda person all this while thts why ur always left broken hearted. i'm sure there will be someone for u to fall in love with. otherwise just forget abt fallin in love, fall in chocolate instead.
2006-11-16 21:15:14 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah
if while you are together you share a mutual respect and bond for each other and you do things that are exciting or tender while you are together and while you are with your partner you are happy and comfy then its worth it
if it was good you will look back on it and smile!
2006-11-16 21:11:37 · answer #8 · answered by Music fan 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You don't decide to fall in love to know if it is worth or not. It happens to you. So don't bother thinking about it.
2006-11-16 22:05:50 · answer #9 · answered by B i n g o 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's a horrible cliche, but when the right person comes along, it hits you like a firebolt, and it's worth every second.
2006-11-16 21:22:58 · answer #10 · answered by Ricecakes 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋