i have this friend,a relly close friend of mine!!! And i fall in love w/ her so i tried to express my feelings to her and i did!!! but the problem is it ruined our friendship!!! now she won't even talk to me!!!! what should i do to fix our friendship???? pls. help!
2006-11-16 21:06:00 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
it happened to me. I never talked to my former friend who told me his feelings. This happens most of the times. I think the problem is the girl starts to feel uncomfortable with you. Of course she knows that you treat her more than a friend. I think you should try to treat her like the way you treat your friends, if you want your friendship. If you want her love, then court her. Never let your fears block your way. Besides, also give her time ti think and a little more space.. Good luck!
2006-11-16 21:22:15 · answer #1 · answered by junified.bea 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There may not be a straight answer to your question or request. If she won't speak to you, that's her choice. Somehow, let her know that you would like to start over again, and perhaps be friends again. If you were not very tactful when you told her you loved her, you might have caught her off guard and she may have been embarrassed so lashed out and tried not to lose face. Take it slowly and just hope for the best. Remember, if she chooses to end the relationship, you really must accept things as they are and move on. Perhaps another girl might be just around the corner. I hope this help you. Good luck from Australia.
2006-11-16 21:20:54 · answer #2 · answered by The Chief 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ezekiel 23:20
2016-05-21 22:17:25 · answer #3 · answered by Ellen 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her the truth. Tell her you want your friendship back. And tell her that you just wanted to tell her how you feel. There's nothing with that. It's called being honest. What would she do if she were in your shoes, right? That kinda talk. I mean, was it all worth it? Hell yes. You got it out of your system. Don't forget to tell her that your friendship means more to you than your unanswered love for her. But you know what, give her time to adjust to that fact. You may be surprised.
2006-11-16 21:16:38 · answer #4 · answered by Mint 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is the awkard position you can get in to if you have feeling towards your close friend.
Well I suppose now you'll just have to sit down and have a good talk. Go look for her at her place and tell her what ever you felt and explain to her if that's how she feels you'll just have to be friends.
It's pretty awkard, I've been there too. But eventually we did end up being couples.
2006-11-16 21:15:32 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Im not sure what help I can offer, but i understand your pain. My best friend fell in love with me, and still is in love with me. But she waited to mention her feelings until after i gave my heart away to the man i am now engaged to. Our friendship will never be the same.. she sees me as person who broke her heart first, friend second.
2006-11-16 21:12:41 · answer #6 · answered by Wren Tagair 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is just needing time to take in what you just told her, my advice to you is to just keep letting her know that your friendship means more than anything.......let her know that you are not pushing your feelings on her, but that you wanted to be honest and let her know.....if your friendship is a true one, then she will come around.....and if not, then life goes on and that is the way you have to look at this........hope my advice was helpful......
Remember.......there is never anything wrong about being true and honest.......being real is the only way to be......good luck!!
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2006-11-16 21:18:16 · answer #7 · answered by Angel 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she's just freaked right now. she thinks that whenever she sees you or talks to you, you're going to be a different person and maybe try to make her feel the same or move on her. just keep your distance for now or tell her it won't change your friendship and that you won't mention it anymore if she would like.
2006-11-16 21:14:25 · answer #8 · answered by marincaligirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her you want to fix your friendship. Let her know if that is all you can have then that will be better than nothing at all.
Sorry baby, but hey at least now you know where you stand with her.
2006-11-16 21:12:45 · answer #9 · answered by betty_htch 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do not talk to her or call her or send a card to her for some days. After some days, send her an e-mail or card saying 'Sorry, can we be friends again?' If that does not work out, forget her mate!!!
2006-11-16 21:12:23 · answer #10 · answered by Sweet 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋