So ! Here it is. I've been with a few girls so far (I'm turning 22), only one being a real serious thing. But before all of them, and while I was with them I've always wanted this girl I've known since grade 10.
Now, I've been with a girl for about 5+ months. We're banging, but I definitely don't love her and don't see us lasting forever at all. Here's the fun part - at my friend's wedding the other month I finally had the balls to make out with my highschool hottie, and we've been seeing eachother since.
I'm having some real issues because as cool as it is having 2 girls, it's tearing me apart. Aside from the guilt, I can't bring myself to profess my love for the one girl while seeing the other. Why not break it off with the excess ? For some reason I can't bring myself to do it. I hate hurting people's feelings. I can't tell her about the other girl, she'll burn my house down. And what if I marry the other, I'll always think back to this (I couldn't tell her about it either). Help?
2006-11-16 20:33:19 · 5 answers · asked by Dave 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
hi, 1st of alll, just sit up silently in ur room.
list out ur priorties in life..
i mean, what exactly u want & from where u can get that.
now, make it a point , never ever hurt a girl, its very difficult for them to manage thier heartbreak for sometime..
rather than, saying it str8 forward, try to inquire from them, that , what is the feeling of that girl about u , whom u love.
then, slowly, but surely u wud come out of this mess .
but , buddy, act with patience
2006-11-16 20:45:19 · answer #1 · answered by Manish J 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i hate breaking up with people becuz just like u i hate hurting there feelings so what i do is try to get them to break up with me just be igornet to them not real igornet but u know what i mean or i wait till we get in a bad fight which i cause on purpose than just say i dont want to be with u
2006-11-16 20:49:18 · answer #2 · answered by IM LOVIN IT 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you shouldnt cheat first of all its bad because u feel guilty later on in life about it. i think u should pick the one u love the most and devote your life to them,not both. if u live one but only like the other, take the one u love.love is a bigger feeling and love lasts longer then the likeable one.
2006-11-16 20:46:10 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
dayammmm, i dont know what to say
2006-11-16 20:51:15 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Idiot
2006-11-16 20:43:45 · answer #5 · answered by IQ lady 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋