ive crushed on a good guy friend for awhile and someone's found out and spreading rumors. he wont talk to me or look at me today in school. he mustve gotten some of the gossip. he only looked at me twice in language arts. once when someone called me the wrong name and they laughed playfully and again when i passed him moving around the room. he didnt look disgusted or anything but he was looking at me. i shouldve smiled...[:
sorry im posting a lot but i want different opinions im trying to get as much as i can. thanks.
2006-11-16 20:25:31 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
he likes you, he just dus not know how act since he knows you like him. mabey try asking him out.
2006-11-16 20:31:16 · answer #1 · answered by wolfgang4862 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I guess he is seeing you in a different way that's why he's not talkign to you or something. Give him some time to think about it. Maybe he will even talk to you about it. I think when he finally does, be honest and tell him the truth. If he doesn't feel the same, then I guess you should move on. Tell him that it shouldn't ruin the friendship. It happens all the time. Eventually you'll move on. But if he does feel the same way, you should think about jumping to the next level. There will be complications, but if both are willing to risk it, then you go right ahead.
2006-11-16 20:35:18 · answer #2 · answered by Mint 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, this is a lil strange. He might have heard some of the gossip like you said, but gossip is never good. Maybe if he had been talking to you more before this all happened he didnt know about whatever was going around. If you've got his email or whatever, get.. send him one asking if he's mad at you, Its what i'd do. Try to figure out what he heard, maybe thats the only reason... you never know.. he might like you.. but to find that out you gotta ask questions, sorry this doesn't help, i went thru the same thing this year.. and i asked an it turned out something like that had happened.. so hey. take a chance,.. what could happen? Life is life, boys are boys, they can be great friends, but if u wanna know things about them soemtimes u gotta ask yourself.. they can be a lil slow lol.
Hope this helps you out, :)
2006-11-16 20:34:13 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think the problem is that he doesnt want to lose your friendship by dating you and he may be a little freaked out at the thought of it. Give it time and he'll start talking to you again. Don't try to confront him right now, it may just push him away further. Or if your realy ballsy, talk to him to findout where he stands
2006-11-16 20:35:32 · answer #4 · answered by funkymonkey86 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he maybe just incredibly embarassed!An idiot friend he confided in must have blabbed it and now he doesn't know how to approach u! yet alone look in ur face ! Give it time then after bout a week be brave, approach him and ask him what those crazy rumors were all about k?good!lol!
2006-11-16 20:43:25 · answer #5 · answered by murmic05 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
how old r u well u sound young to me im only 19 so i still know a little bit about puppy love i think he likes you but believe it or not boys are very shy so thats all it proabley it is but just go over n talk to him so he knows that your into him guys are just like girls they are afraid of rejection
2006-11-16 20:33:43 · answer #6 · answered by IM LOVIN IT 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
babe... if he's a good friend of yours, y dun u guys talk things out... lol.. i guess u must be in yer mid-teens.. for ppl to 'spread' rumours bout such issue deems to be so inmature... anyway.. have a talk with that friend.. be as honest and yourself at all times... the last thing u want is to lose this guy...
cheers...
2006-11-16 20:34:19 · answer #7 · answered by Nitesky 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I used to be that guy. I say engage conversation, real idle stuff so you don't put him on the spot. See if he wants to go grab lunch with you or something like that. Best way to go in my opinion :)
2006-11-16 20:37:53 · answer #8 · answered by Dave 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
actually i also had this kind situation. maybe you just should talk to him, like this
"this is my life and i can pick how did i like or not. futhermore it only a crush not your my bf yet"
2006-11-16 20:34:05 · answer #9 · answered by oleoliharu 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him all the truth about of the story.
2006-11-16 20:38:48 · answer #10 · answered by freeall_freeme 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋