I'm 17, and I've liked this guy since I was 13. There was always lots of chemistry between us, but than I changed schools because of bullies. Everytime I see him my heart does backflips, my stomach tightens and I get major as butterflies as well as feeling really nervous and excited at the same time. I saw him a few months ago and we spent like an hour just watching each other. What should I do, do you think this could go anywhere?
2006-11-16 20:21:25 · 12 answers · asked by Steph :-) 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Can I suggest something?
How about the next time you meet him, use your sense of humour to have a good chat with him first. See how he responds and then base on his behaviour toward you, you then decide the next move.
2006-11-16 20:31:49 · answer #1 · answered by James 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well try see him so that you can have more time together. Without asking him out directly, you can show him that you have special feeling towards him. As a girl by different actions you can do that. Actually you can make him ask you. So be cool, and use the opportunities to express the feelings you have for you. Not telling him straight but you can tell him that he is very special for you. And you will soon see the things will be raised by him. But don't chase him. Most guys don't like it.
Good Luck!!
2006-11-16 20:57:10 · answer #2 · answered by Sam 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you spent an hour watching him, did you talk? Did he help w/your bully trouble? You say you're 17, and you think you're in love... you may be right. He feels the same? Never settle for less than your worth. I was 17 when i met my husband. he loved me. it took me until i was 19 before i fell for him... then we went our separate waysfor 12 YEARS! My advice is to use the KISS(keep it simple ,stupid)..(no offense) method. dont do silly things, like date his friends, (even tho its been 5 years), dont shack up, that makes you unavailable,GET A JOB!!!(cant stress that enough), or a trade,(they pay well, & you're always needed)...I know that you love him...make sure that your worthy of HIS love. Don't give up, just be sure.
2006-11-16 20:46:20 · answer #3 · answered by hb 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, pretty much. I mean, it takes two to tango right? Start going out as friends first. That way, you'll figure out both your feelings for each other. Then from there, you're just going to have to go with how you feel about him.
2006-11-16 20:30:42 · answer #4 · answered by Mint 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask him out, enjoy some time getting to know each other better, and have some laugh.
no reason for it to get too serious straight away. just chill out together and see where it leads.
enjoy
2006-11-16 20:27:18 · answer #5 · answered by pugsbaby 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you make it go somewhere, sure.
why don't you ask him out on a date, and after a few dates tell him that you've been having a lot of fun and that you like him a lot.
2006-11-16 20:26:00 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you should and if you lost this guy, many man in this earth is will like you
2006-11-16 20:29:32 · answer #7 · answered by oleoliharu 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would say just try to start hanging out with him more...ask him if he wants to hang out with you and then give us an update!
2006-11-16 20:26:52 · answer #8 · answered by christina rose 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sure, ask him out the next time you see him,maybe coffe,movie or whatever.
2006-11-16 20:32:52 · answer #9 · answered by paulina83 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah!
be safe and lucky!
2006-11-16 20:27:35 · answer #10 · answered by Music fan 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋