the girl ive known on the internet ive known over a year, is now hardly ever on, at one point we were very close, she was even gonna come over to england to study so she could be with me...when ive asked her if shes seeing anyone else or dating anyone all she ever does is get angry and tries to draw me into an argument...so ive backed off quite alot and am tryin to let her guide things..but she comes on msn and says a few sentences like, hi, how are you? i say im fine how are you?, she says something like im great and a bit tired, then she goes quiet and just goes off line.....last night she came on msn...i stayed on all day...to wait for her..she came on..nothin was said for 20mins..then she goes offline and remains offline until around 12 midnight my time so i sign offline & go to my other email addy...after 10mins i thought id go bck &sign back in to change my display picture, and shes back online !! like she waited for me to go off...so i just went offline and didnt say anything
2006-11-16 20:16:39 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i was so hurt, i know shes in canada and me britain but i really growed to like her...i really dont no how to react to her behaviour?? shes 19 im 29
2006-11-16 20:18:10 · update #1
when you say move on, should i even erase her from my msn?? itll be a hard thing to do for me, i got so close to her :(
2006-11-16 20:31:29 · update #2
because she don't like you pal plain and simple what a brick gotta fall on your head move on there is too many broads out there waiting for a guy just go find one
2006-11-17 00:25:42 · answer #1 · answered by nick g 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
oke... do u know that msn have this option of 'appear offline'? if she's to avoid u... all she have to do is just click that and she's online while appearing offline to u...
this is my personal guess... it's over between u guys...
1. it's an obvious scene that yer communication has broke down.. which i can say... it's over...
2. she's not very responsive to yer chat msgs... i assume she lose her intrest..
move on dude... my advice to u.. sorrie to give u such advices but.. that's the best i figured for u where u won't be hurt anymore/any longer...
2006-11-16 20:28:01 · answer #2 · answered by Nitesky 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Get over it and meet someone where you are from. I think online dating is a crock anyway. How well can you really get to know anyone by typing back and forth on a computer. I mean I could tell you I'm a super model and filthy rich and you'd never know the difference.
2006-11-16 20:26:12 · answer #3 · answered by sweet.pjs1 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋
I developed a good friend from canada on my im's and we've been chatting for a month now and haven't had any trouble.Must be what part your friend is from.Them ones from the west coast in victoria are extremely sexy but probably wouldn't give a dude a chance if there life depended on it.They also have little to say.
2006-11-16 20:26:54 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
for 1 your to old for her and for 2 its over the internet u can be friends with someone online but dont try to hook up with people online because that person could me feeding u lies all the time and u could never know it she could be 12 yeaars old or if she stoped talking to u she proable just got a boyfriend n feels guilty talking to both of u
2006-11-16 20:38:08 · answer #5 · answered by IM LOVIN IT 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
she probably found another guy. that or shes kinda scared to meet you in person, cause thoses kinda things are always strange. have you thought about maybe something you said to her before she stoped talking to you? if i were to guess those its probably another guy. but im sure theres many more girls out there. dont get too bend outta shape about it and you seem like you care alot about her. im suer some other girl would love to have a guy like you that they can apperiate.
2006-11-16 20:24:21 · answer #6 · answered by face:face 1 · 3⤊ 0⤋
let her have her space....she might just be afraid that you care so much for her. Time will tell....maybe you came on too strong and she isn't read for it, being nineteen and all....sometimes people run away...not that they don't care about you, but that it just frightens them off...give her some time and space and let her make the next move..she already knows you care..
2006-11-16 20:34:49 · answer #7 · answered by MotherKittyKat 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
IMHO, you've became obsessive. If you think she's playing a game, then just leave her alone. If you suspect her that she's seeing someone else...you might be right (because she's so mad), or it means that you don't trust her which is not a good sign.
2006-11-16 20:24:39 · answer #8 · answered by Jo 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
she is ten years younger than you? and to add, she is thousands of miles away from you! take the hint, it will never work. so let her go. and the fact that she is avoiding you, take the hint. she is not into you. ayt.
2006-11-16 20:43:38 · answer #9 · answered by Acidburn 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
she's playing games because she found a sucker to play with. don't mess with strange women over the internet.
2006-11-16 20:22:20 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋