hey girls and boys i ahve this crush whcih alll of my friends think is never gonig to work out . the guy is 30 years old and i am 18. he has a good job and i think he is the cuteist thing in the world. do u guy's think i should tel him i have a crush on him or not. plz be serious.
2006-11-16 19:09:52 · 15 answers · asked by Hally berry 3 in Society & Culture ➔ Religion & Spirituality
Sure, what could it hurt?
2006-11-16 19:15:18 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I guess the typical answer would be no. But I think it depends on your level of maturity. A crush probably wont become much more. Unless you know him very well, Id be very careful before telling him something like that. Sometimes signals can be misinterpreted as wanting something more, meaning he may think you just want to have sex with him...He may put more into it which would put you in a potentially dangerous situation.
2006-11-17 03:19:16 · answer #2 · answered by mandakathryn02 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You just described your relationship to this man as a "crush". I think you know well enough that your intentions are not serious- but merely infatuation. Go ahead and tell him, but be aware that a 30 year old will want more than just to hold your hand while you rollerblade together. Use protection.
2006-11-17 03:19:48 · answer #3 · answered by B SIDE 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It will give yourself peace and mind to let this guy know how you feel... who know ya might have a love connection.. lol or a booty call. thing is a 30 usually have his stuff together by then .. an 18 yr old is thinking with one thing on his mind
2006-11-17 03:20:49 · answer #4 · answered by georgiaonmymine 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Age is no biggie! If he's a good man and does support people he loves, then yes! Plus, make sure he isn't married! Tell him when you're truly ready! My uncle and his girlfriend have like 19 years between themsleves!
=)
2006-11-17 03:22:16 · answer #5 · answered by -♦One-♦-Love♦- 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You don't need to *tell* him anything. Actions speak louder than words. He'll know by your actions. Be cool. Don't worry about the age difference or whether or not it will "work out". Either it will or it won't, but that doesn't mean you can't enjoy it in the meantime.
Rock on, Mama!
2006-11-17 03:18:22 · answer #6 · answered by MyPreshus 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
What do you two have in common? (I hope more than sex)
Asking in the R/S section, I guess that is a major concern.
I have been there, it was a long distance situation, (I traveled for work to her city for three months) so we knew not to get serious, we knew it would not work.
But you only live once. better to loved and lost, than never to live
2006-11-17 03:20:45 · answer #7 · answered by Slave to JC 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What in the world are you going to have in common with a 30 yo guy ?? Stick with your own age group.
2006-11-17 03:15:04 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
well
if ye have to see him everyday for any length of time then tell him not. if its JUST someone you know, let him have it. if ye just base this off him being Cute keep in mind looks aren't everything it Alsodepepnds on how he wields his "Bronze Hammer". Not the Size of the Boat, its the Motion in the Ocean. mmmKay?! best of luck to ye
2006-11-17 03:22:55 · answer #9 · answered by I Kick Babies 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you're old enough to make your own discisions. there is nothing wrong with it. if you feel that strongly for him let him know. take the chance, it might just work out for you.
2006-11-17 03:16:34 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't think age is that important if you are a similar "mental age."
2006-11-17 03:20:46 · answer #11 · answered by Heron By The Sea 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋