there is this girl, we feel awkward around each other, every time i talk to her she freaking blushes every time, and english becomes her second language. so since we both feel so awkward around each other, we just aviod each other, but the damn universe seems to be against us cause we seem to meet every week, mainly cuase we both have the same friends, but when i do meet we talk and have a good time, but the stupid awkwardness is still there its freaking ridicilous. its like we both know that our hearts are on the line and we are scared or something. i am confused, what is her problem? for that matter what is wrong with me? why do i keep thinking about her?
2006-11-16 18:10:54 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
The thing about life is, we meet people each day that are there for a reason. I would make a move. What is the absolute worst thing that can happen? You both connect, get to know each other and one of you gets hurt? If you are both honest from the beginning then you can avoid quite a bit of it. You only have one life to live. Enjoy it and learn all you can before you go!
2006-11-16 18:23:41 · answer #1 · answered by smwah345 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
because you both like each other, whether you realize it or not. It's not really a problem, it's just that she might not be comfortable speaking english to you because it's her 2nd language and she doesn't want to feel embarrassed, and you might feel intimidated (it's a natural "safety" that humans provide themselves) by her because you're subconsciously afraid that you might do/say something that will embarrass you. It'll just take time to break the ice between you two, hang out with her more and you'll both feel less awkward over time
2006-11-17 02:17:24 · answer #2 · answered by mysticaura29 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's great! Look....I know from experience that the best way to stop awkwardness is contact. Since your sure she feels the same way do this. When you see her say hi as you walk up to her and hug her! No joke it will relaxe her. When you hug her say how's it going or what's up or something it will break the awkwardness. Or just find a way to sit close to her or hold her hand. Try it! I would love to know how it works out. Good Luck hun.
2006-11-17 02:27:28 · answer #3 · answered by Peek@u 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Grow a pair of balls man and just ask this chick out. Awkwardness or not. you'll never know unless you try. What if you miss your chance cus your scared and she meets another dude and forgets about ya...?? If you at least try and get hurt then you can say you gave it your best shot.
2006-11-17 02:17:15 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
For some people, it's difficult to get to know others or let others "into their worlds." It just takes time. If you choose to go out with each other, the nervousness will probably go away after a few dates..
2006-11-17 02:16:20 · answer #5 · answered by Laura Renee 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be youself around her and try to hang out with her. Since you're both shy, take advantage of the situation. And when you guys hang out enough it will become less awkward.
2006-11-17 02:46:21 · answer #6 · answered by 11:11 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, communication does seem to be problem if english is her second language and you can't speak hers. But if you two have mutual friends just tell her ( and yours) friends that you think she is cute. They will tell her...
Why do you keep thinking about her... come on.. you like her.. she likes you.. look at her body language.. Sit next to her the next time you meet. If you like her.. look at her.. and keep looking at her... Look at her face then her lips then her eyes.. then back at her lips.. If she doesnt look away.. go for it. Kiss her.
If she runs away.. well at least you tried and youll never say "what if"
2006-11-17 02:18:47 · answer #7 · answered by Tenchu 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u guys r in love.. but dont wanna accept the fact.. stop running away from each other.. if u think u guys r a problem for each other then have the courage to face each other nd come to terms with the fact.. afterall the only way to overcome a problem is to face it..
2006-11-17 02:18:37 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like her problem is you..She is into you..You are into her..But the real problem is that neither of you seem to know how to make the first move..The dance will never start until one of you moves your feet,don't be shy make a move,at the very least you'll find out what her problem has been..
2006-11-17 02:17:12 · answer #9 · answered by john316tdh 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
one of you is gonna have to take the next step. mabey if you 2 meet outside of mutual friends and without others around or mabey talk over the phone so you can build your confidence.
2006-11-17 02:18:09 · answer #10 · answered by just askin 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋